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Thanks for your interesting research.
I am sure that spankings which were prevalent in most families in the past was often used as an excuse for viewing nudity and exposure of boys by females, including babysitters, aunts and others besides mothers, since it was a legitimate excuse to strip boys bare for a spanking, even till their teens.
It would be impossible to comment on every case you mention in one post, but I especially liked the posts about female teachers in some elementary schools exposing boys in front of mixed class to spank them, but never girls.
As one post said by the end of the year all the girls knew what every boy's genitals in their class looked like due to these punishments in front of class.
>Hello, Curious!
>
>Here are some gleanings from my files:
>
>----exciting for the girls
>
>Rhonda (2019, Voy 223876) was living in an apartment
>complex. One rainy day, she and several other families
>were in the laundry room in the basement. A 9-year-old
>boy wandered outside and got soaked. His mother
>punished him by ordering him to strip naked in the
>presence of everyone else.
>
>All the girls present, including Rhonda’s daughter,
>ran up for a close look. Rhonda at first restrained
>her daughter, but the boy’s mother insisted.
>
>Polly (2018, Voy 223876) was given free rein when
>friend’s brother was punished this way:
>
>“I know I saw him nude at least 10 or more times. We
>were allowed to really look at his penis close up and
>everything! We would talk about it until he got a
>hard-on and laugh at him watching it grow! I know it
>was mean to do but we really enjoyed seeing him get
>hard!
>
>“He would get so upset he would cry as we teased him
>about his most private part! We all knew exactly what
>it looked like so we teased him about looking at it
>and seeing him get a hard-on!”
>
>There did not seem to be any statute on limitations,
>or any code against double jeopardy either. Josh
>(2018, Voy 223876) expresses sympathy for a friend:
>
>“And worst of all they would bring it up later and
>wanted to talk about it asking how it stuck straight
>up or if it stayed that way for a long time. They
>would always get Billy to show them again and it would
>get real embarrassing all over again as they looked at
>and played with his pecker!”
>
>Jack (2019, Voy 223876) was sent to a juvenile home at
>the age of 13. While at the juvenile home, he got in
>a fight with another boy and was punished by being
>forced to stand in the hallway nude for three days.
>Girls mopping the floor would sometimes pause in their
>work and take a good look. Jack’s nudity was also a
>source of amusement for the girls’ work break.
>
>This form of punishment is especially prevalent in
>India. In the home, the boy might be forced to stand
>still, as he was in the cases reported by Clara and
>Anna.
>
>Loki (2018, Voy 223876) had to provide this sort of
>involuntary display for his three sisters and all
>their friends. Sai (2018, Voy 2238876) was sometimes
>seen by a neighbor girl of whom he was fond. She
>would sometime touch his penis, causing him to
>ejaculate. For more serious offenses, Akbar (2018,
>Voy 223876) and his brother would have to stand
>outside.
>
>In some cases, there was not even a fair trial. Taj
>(2018, Voy 2238776) and his younger brother had a
>sister who would sometimes lie to their mother, just
>so that she and her friends could enjoy the hour-long
>show.
>
>Yamani (2018, Voy 223876) was one of those fortunate
>sisters. She enjoyed the occasions when they “got
>to see penises and also their erection,” when her
>brothers “would leak pre-semen,” and when the
>boys’ erections got “very hard and red from their
>embarrassment.”
>
>A sister or girl cousin could be appointed to escort
>the boy through the neighborhood, inviting others to
>look and touch. If the boy tries to cover his penis
>with his hand, the girl restrains him (Tina 2017, Voy
>223876). This serves a double function as punishment
>and as sex education for the girls (Ben P 2018, Voy
>223876).
>
>This technique has also used in school in Western
>culture. Ulma (2018, Voy 223876) recalls:
>
>“When we were in 3rd grade my teacher would strip a
>boy totally nude and show him to the class, his penis
>included. We saw a bunch of boys get erections as they
>stood right there in front of us all. The teacher let
>us watch as he grew!
>
>“. . . Mrs. Hamilton told us girls we could look at
>him as he stood before the class with everything
>showing like that. We giggled at his embarrassment and
>thrilled at seeing him react to us seeing his
>penis!”
>
>Nude punishment has been a mainstay of juvenile
>prisons. When Jimmy (2019, Voy 223876) was 14, he fell
>into the wrong crowd and landed in a reformatory. It
>was unpleasant enough dressing, undressing, showering
>while seen by matrons, teachers, and office workers,
>but the greatest hardship was enduring nude
>punishment. If he misbehaved, he had to strip naked
>and stand still against the wall with his hands behind
>his back. If a nearby elementary school had a field
>trip that day, he had to tolerate the girls’
>whispering and giggling.
>
>When Darlene (2020, Voy 223876) was 7 years old, a
>boys’ prison was built about a mile away from her
>house. One summer day, Darlene was in the wooded area
>with four other girls. They heard some noise, got
>curious, and ventured toward the prison. They saw a
>yard surrounded by a chain link fence, where boys were
>exercising. The boys were in their underwear, except
>for three who were naked.
>
>A woman guard saw the girls standing at the chain link
>fence and came to the fence to talk to the girls.
>11-year-old Susan inquired about the three boys. The
>guard explained that the boys were being punished for
>recent misbehavior.
>The guard asked the girls to stay in place. She
>brought the three boys over to offer the girls a close
>look. The boys went erect, much to the amusement of
>the guard. The session was interrupted only by the
>ringing of the bell.
>
>The girls made repeated visits, but the boys’
>behavior improved, so the cast of naked boys gradually
>dwindled. The guard accredited the girls for the
>improvement in the boys’ behavior.
>
>----What do I mean, “exciting for girls”? Women
>too!
>
>WeirdWorld (2015, Voy 218699) went online asking women
>if they “use the ‘excuse’ of punishment to try
>to see boys naked” whereas “the truth is you just
>looove his naked body.”
>
>WeirdWorld has a point. When Cole (2015, Vol 216899)
>misbehaved, his mother made him strip to his underwear
>or strip completely. When his friends visited, he
>found it difficult to appear bold and confident,
>especially with his mother calling him “dear.”
>
>As a religious skeptic, I was especially interested in
>his telling us about “our associate minister's young
>wife, dress off, pleasuring herself like crazy.”
>
>Like Cole, Mick (2015, Voy 216899) had to entertain
>his mother’s friends with his nudity. “If she had
>friends round, I would be paraded in front of them all
>. . . while they smoked and laughed.” The women
>“definitely got off on seeing me stood there naked,
>hands behind my back.” Their sexual pleasure became
>evident when Mick “would see some of them touching
>themselves.” Because of this spectacular show, his
>mother was probably “the most popular woman in the
>street!”
>
>Because of his traumatic past, Mick was left being
>“attracted to older women,” especially “those
>who “hurt me and humiliate me.”
>
>You may say, “But these are exceptional cases.”
>That is what I thought before I read an account by an
>Australian nurse who had worked in a boys’ boarding
>school in Malaysia in the 1980’s (Willy552 2010,
>Delphi Forums). At that school, boys were frequently
>stripped naked and caned by women teachers, but seldom
>by men teachers. Some of those teachers admitted that
>they “found it exciting.”
>
>----nude punishment escalated when necessary
>
>Even if a boy is already nude, that doesn’t mean he
>can’t be subjected to nude punishment. Rather, he
>could be subjected to a punishment which would render
>his nudity even more uncomfortable. Rusty (2017, Voy
>223876) performed at a swim meet which his two younger
>sisters and their friends attended. When his mother
>was involved in talking with the coach, one of his
>sisters flipped his penis. He complained to his
>mother, but instead of confronting the sister, his
>mother punished him by making him ride nude all the
>way home.
>
>Until Daniel (2014, Voy 206801) was 15 years old, his
>mother took his family and his neighbors to the beach.
>The double standard arose when it was time to rinse
>off after the swimming. The boys had to walk to and
>from the showers completely naked, and in full view of
>the passers-by. Meanwhile, his mother privately
>rinsed off the girls. One time, when he was 13, Daniel
>caught sight of mother changing younger sisters, so he
>was made to ride home in the station wagon naked.
>
>And we certainly must not forget the most
>reprehensible crime of all: sporting an erection! Tom
>Tom (2019, Voy 223876) had to ride nude all the way
>home from a swim meet. His offense was to sport an
>erection, which his mother regarded as “showing
>off.”
>
>In 1956, The Turk (2018, Voy 223876), then 7 years
>old, played under the sprinkler with his 6-year-old
>girl cousin and her neighbor friend. His aunt made
>him play nude but considered him to be naughty for
>erecting. As a punishment, he had to stand nude until
>his erection receded. During that time, the girls
>were free to tease, touch, and feel.
>
>Try to get a softie THAT way!
>
>According to a British high school alumnus (copied by
>ogdenedsl August 13, 2010, Delphi Forum), getting an
>erection in swimming class was a heinous crime. The
>offender must walk from the swimming pool to the
>headmaster’s office. There, the all-female
>secretarial staff made certain that he stood outside
>the office until the erection subsided.
>
>Try to get a softie THAT way!
>
>----And now for a double decker: sadism and voyeurism!
>
>Kara (2015, Voy 216899) wrote:
>
>“My 10- and 13-year-old boys are spanked for every
>little thing. I don’t even do it that hard but it
>always makes me smile when my 13-year-old acts up and
>I get to strip him naked for a spanking and corner
>time. If they know they’re getting a spanking, they
>know they are getting ‘naked punishment’ too. I
>also keep them in just their underwear when they are
>not being punished. As much as I enjoy it, it’s also
>really effective at keeping them behaved.”
>
>In another message, Kara (2015, Voy 216899) wrote:
>
>“I'm sure most women do get aroused when they are
>stripping a boy for punishment. I sure do when I’m
>taking my 10- and 13-year-old boys’ undies off for a
>spanking. I even keep them bare for the whole day.”
>
>(I will have to take issue with what Kara said about
>"most women," but I must also put that statement in
>its historical context. It was not until the next year
>that that Attard-Johnson and her colleagues ran their
>study. They found that most men dilate their pupils to
>photographs of naked women but not naked men or naked
>children. Most women dilate their pupils to
>photographs of naked men and naked women but not naked
>children. I guess we can kiss Germaine Greer good-by.)
>
>Hannah (2020, Voy 206801), the mother of a girl and a
>boy, enjoyed spanking her children because of their
>“well-endowed bottoms.” She enjoyed “seeing
>their bare bottoms and the feel of my hand across
>them. That personal aspect of it. It was that which I
>appreciated much more so than the spanking itself.”
>
>Remember we just talked about adults who fought a
>valiant battle against erections? It seems that this
>party feels differently. Kathy (2016, Voy 216899)
>responded in another, which began with the question
>“What turns you on the most about punishing a
>boy?” This is what she said:
>
>“I'm a mother and stepmother. I enjoy punishing both
>boys and girls.
>
>“With a boy, I think my favorite is involuntary
>erections. When he can't help getting hard, and I
>tease him that he must enjoy what I'm doing to him.
>
>“Favorite age to punish is probably 5 to 10.”
>Regarding the involuntary erections, Amy (2016, Voy
>223876) wrote:
>
>“I like to say ‘Does that mean you need a spanking
>there too?’ ;)
>
>“The I'm-sorry-Mommy-I-can't-help-it!’s, as it
>keeps getting harder, are so cute!”
>
>“Favorite age to punish is probably 5 to 10."
>
>Cuthbert (2015, 2016, Voy 244703) had a mother whose
>disciplinary tactics were similarly crude. One day,
>she stripped him naked, spanked him, and made him
>remain naked for the rest of the day.
>
>As if that weren’t bad enough, she loaned him out to
>a funny Cub Scout den mother from the time he was 14
>until the time he was 17. The den mother needed, or at
>least pretended to need, an assistant.
>
>He was made to wear Cub Scout shorts which were
>minimal in length, thereby showing every inch of his
>thighs, and minimal in size, thereby showing an
>exquisite contour of his bottom. His mother made him
>go out on trips, wearing the shorts, held his hand,
>and occasionally gave him affectionate swats on the
>bottom.
>
>Every week, the den mother found an excuse to take
>Cuthbert out of the room, pull his shorts down, and
>spank him over his underwear.
>
>After meetings, the den mother often called
>Cuthbert’s mother, informing her that she had a few
>errands to run, and would therefore be late in driving
>Cuthbert home. The truth was that she spent the time
>with Cuthbert sitting in her lap and her playing with
>his bare legs. She would also find excuses to spank
>Cuthbert. only not over his underwear. If he erected,
>she gave him an additional spanking while grabbing his
>penis.
>
>In case you like happy endings, here’s one:
>
>“A few years after I had left the Cub pack Akela was
>arrested for molesting a 10-year-old Cub and drummed
>out of the Scout movement and serving a short prison
>sentence. The old bag got her comeuppance.”
>
>Sorry I don’t have another one for Cuthbert’s
>mother.
>
>Some of these funny mothers have funny husbands. Tara
>(2020, Voy 206801) wrote that she and her husband
>enjoy administering spanking their four boys. They
>record those sessions on their smartphone and watch
>the videos before going to bed.
>
>Beth (2020, Voy 206801) admitted that she and her
>husband retired to the bedroom after administering
>corporal punishment to their three boys. There they
>get stimulated by watching videos of earlier sessions.
>
>Not all of the response to these messages was
>favorable. For example, Bozo the Clown (2016, Voy
>216899) told Kathy, “What a sicko! Please jump off a
>tall building the first chance you get.”
>
>----And now for a triple decker: sadism, voyeurism,
>and exhibitionism!
>
>Before Kathy (2016, Voy 216899) spanked one of her
>boys, she stripped the boy nude. Then she stripped
>herself down to “bra and panties, or t-shirt and
>panties. Occasionally just panties.”
>
>Regarding a sexually stimulating effect on the child,
>she admitted that “seeing me mostly nude while
>they're completely nude often does have a visible
>effect on them.”
>
>Like Kathy, a contributor writing under the name of
>Julie Wilson (2016, Voy 216899) claimed to be a mother
>who stripped a boy naked before administering a
>spanking. She preferred to do this in front of a
>female audience. Before she administered the ritual,
>she removed “all but my bra and panties.” She
>found it helped focus the boy’s attention and made
>him easier to control. She furthermore explained that
>her own partial nudity prevented a mess in case the
>child ejaculated in her lap. She began this practice
>when her son was 13 years old.
>
>She admitted that she enjoyed the practice. She
>defended herself on the grounds that “it is better
>to impose a punishment I enjoy than one I don't. I
>think I've earned it.”
>
>She denied, however, that her motive was to sexually
>arouse the child. In fact, she rendered further shame
>and punishment if the child showed an erection.
>
>To add to the humiliation, she advocated requiring
>boys to wear women’s clothes. She rationalized such
>a practice on the grounds that girls wear boys’
>clothes, but boys don’t wear girls’ clothes on the
>grounds that women are inferior. “Putting boys in
>dresses and panties can help them develop respect for
>women.”
>
>Or better yet, make boys wear women’s lingerie and
>nothing else. “For a boy to start wearing his
>mother's pretty nylon panties can be a turning point
>in his life.” “A boy in panties will brighten up
>the home.” In addressing another contributor, she
>suggested staging a lingerie fashion show for a female
>audience in the living room, using the contributor’s
>own boys as models.
>
>In reading these messages, my last surprise was to see
>her claim to be a psychologist. A Google search showed
>a very highly respected psychiatrist named Julie
>Wilson, working in a pediatric hospital in Pawtucket,
>RI.
>
>True, mental health professionals can say some zany
>things, but I have serious doubts that our trusty
>servant in Rhode Island really wrote these messages
>and intended for them to be taken seriously. For one
>thing, there is a continuity error. Does the writer
>spank only one child, as one of her messages would
>imply, or several children, as another of her messages
>would imply?
>
>It is possible that the messages were written as a
>joke by some person who did not know of the real Julie
>Wilson. Or they could have been written by a person
>seeking revenge after an unpleasant experience with
>the real Julie Wilson.
>
>Or perhaps the real Julie Wilson wrote those messages
>as a joke.
>
>I wrote to the psychiatrist in Rhode Island, asking if
>she was really the author of these posts. To date, I
>have not received a response.
>
>----To be effective, nude punishment must be
>undesirable for the boy.
>
>Phil S. (2018, dead link) attended a British high
>school. Any student who forgot to bring his or her gym
>uniform to school had to attend the class naked.
>Apparently, that was supposed to be a punishment. But
>some of the students were comfortable with nudity,and
>found the prospect especially attractive when class
>was held outside in warm weather. So those students
>pretended to forget to bring their uniforms.
>
>I neglected to keep notes on Jeepman’s story, so I
>will have to paraphrase. Jeepman's stepmother was
>unaware of his passion for corporeal display. One day,
>Jeepman did something unacceptable to his stepmother.
>The stepmother ordered him to take off his clothes,
>subject himself to a spanking in the stepmother’s
>lap, and spend the rest of the day naked in the
>presence of his two stepsisters.
>
>This created a cycle: the stepsisters would accuse
>Jeepman of an offense which he in fact did not do,
>Jeepman would not deny the offense, Jeepman would
>undress, Jeepman would undergo a barely painful
>spanking in Stepmother’s lap, and for the rest of
>the day, Jeepman would bless his charming sisters with
>his beautiful body.
>
>Sometimes, the punishment could be unpleasant at
>first, but later begin to mellow. Astor (2019, Voy
>223876) tells this story:
>
>“I was 13 and caught masturbating by my mother. My
>punishment was to serve as a model for the education
>of my 2 sisters and girl cousin then masturbate for
>all to watch.
>
>“I believe it backfired as the girls wanted to see
>more so we found places to fool around and I learned
>to enjoy their help.
>
>“It was all a lot of fun until I unexpectedly
>exploded all over a friend of my cousin and ruined her
>blouse. We were lucky to get away with it telling lies
>about her getting bird poop on her blouse and trying
>to wash it out!”
>
>From the age of 9 until the age of 12, the parents of
>Sanford (2019, Voy 223876) punished him by making him
>stand naked in the corner. This was both amusing and
>educational for his sisters and their friends. Over
>time, Sanford’s embarrassment turned to enjoyment.
>His parents probably realized this, because “once I
>started to enjoy it, the frequency slowed down and
>eventually ended!”
>
>Perhaps Sanford’s parents should have brought in a
>new audience for Sanford. roy (2021, Voy 223876), who
>grew up in India, reports:
>
>“Nude punishments were always humiliating in a
>visiting relatives house or when someone visiting your
>house as they were not used to see you naked on a
>daily basis. We were comfortable to be naked who saw
>us naked every day but not in front of everybody.”
>
>----Nudity is embarrassing only in certain contexts.
>
>It may seem irrational to us that boys in India
>skinny-dip during their leisure hours,but are
>humiliated when forced by their parents or
>schoolteachers to strip naked as punishment. roy
>(2021, Voy 223876), who grew up in India, explains
>that:
>
>“Nude punishments were more embarrassing as probably
>you were the only one naked in front of others totally
>dressed.
>“While on the other hand, you along with your group
>of friends playing completely naked in the village
>field or skinny dipping in the river no one cared. You
>were not the only one and was socially acceptable.”
>
>----indignance over the gender discrimination
>
>Taj (2018, Voy 223876) was a frequent victim of naked
>punishment during his childhood in India.
>
>“There was nothing fair about the punishment as it
>never happened to my sister even when she talked back
>to mother. . . She would gloat that she could see and
>touch ours but we would never even see hers and she
>was right about that.”
>
>What was the reason for this discrimination? I can
>give you one reason:
>
>Hadji (2018, Voy 223876) lives in the United States,
>but he and his family took a trip back to India.
>There, his mother was reminded of this time-honored
>practice and decided that it should be instituted in
>their own home. This is what he reports:
>
>“When my female cousin talked back to her mother the
>punishment was changed and she was given more chores
>to complete as opposed to being made to stand nude for
>us boys to see. When I asked my mother why she
>wasn’t made to stand nude she told me not to say a
>word about it as female parts are considered sacred
>and not to be shared with boys and men!”
>
>Matt (2021, Voy 223876) was also subjected to the
>practice while his sister was not. His mother
>explained that nude punishment of girls would result
>in their growing to become “loose women.”
>
>And just in case you haven’t had enough injustice
>for one day, let’s hear what Ben (2018, Voy 223876)
>has to say:
>
>“We had a . . . teacher in fourth grade who did this
>mostly to black boys. She seemed to enjoy exposing
>them in front of our mixed class for spankings. Not
>totally naked as in your case but with their pants and
>underpants down and she would roll up their shirt for
>them to be completely exposed.
>“The girls obviously enjoyed seeing their black
>penises and hanging balls, sometimes erecting while
>standing in front of class waiting to be spanked.
>
>“We other boys were bared and spanked behind her
>desk and although there was still some exposure it was
>not as humiliating as the black boys. She did not seem
>to like them much.
>
>“Girls were very rarely spanked and never bare. By
>the end of the year the girls in class had all seen
>what our penises looked like.”
>
>Attard-Johnson, J.; Bindemann, M.; & Ó Ciardha, C.
>2016. Pupillary response as an age-specific measure of
>sexual interest. Archives of Sexual Behavior 45:
>855–870.
>https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4820473/
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