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Subject: Why is it rude for a naked boy to cup his penis?


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spelvin
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Date Posted: 05:49:53 04/02/26 Thu
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This question came up from time on the blue forum and the yellow forum, but I wanted to hear any comments on this forum.

----By keeping one’s hands by his side, the boy shows that he is not self-conscious.

Willy (2020, Voy 223876) wished to demonstrate that “my nudity was no big deal.”

Manuel (2022, Voy 206801) was told that “we're not doing anything wrong and if we're not doing anything wrong, then we shouldn't be trying to hide anything.”

Manuel (2022, Voy 206801) further explained that “we were not to be ashamed or embarrassed no matter the development we were in. Some were more mature than others, some were slow developers, and then others shaved to make themselves appear younger.”

----Appearing uninhibited prevents the girls from feeling embarrassed.

Willy (2020, Voy 223876) again. Dim (2020, Voy 223876) recalled such a rule being announced at a Russian summer camp, where the boys’ showers were supervised by older girl counsellors.

I interpret this to mean that the boy is embarrassed, and the girl is therefore embarrassed because she does not know how to react.

----It was “offensive to the girls.”

Sean (2021, Voy 206801) suggested this as a possibility.
I'm not sure I understand correctly.
This could mean that a boy's penis is visually pleasurable to a girl, that a boy cupping his penis is indifferent to the girl's desire for visual pleasure, and that the boy is therefore indifferent to the girl's needs and desires.
Does anyone have a different interpretation:

----It “draws more attention to oneself.”

Willy (2020, Voy 223876) mentioned this as one of the frequent arguments. Manuel (2022, Voy 206801) was told that “hiding something brings so much attention the wrong way.”

----It showed lack of concentration on swimming.

Willy (2020, Voy 223876) also mentioned this as one of the frequent arguments.

sean (2021, Voy 206801) also suggested that “the coach just wanted us to be focusing on our swimming knowing if we were touching ourselves a lot, we wouldn't be focusing on the right things.” This is a strong possibility, since coaches also objected to erections for the same reason.

----It infringed on the girl’s desire to look.

ss sean (2022, Voy 206801) suspected that one reason was “so the girls could see your erection without . . . interference. Since most of the rules were determined by females in charge, the coach etc., the rules for not covering was for the benefit of the female spectators.”

If I understand Willy (2020, Voy 223876) correctly, he believes that the girls’ view of the boy swimmers’ genitals is an inborn right, and any obstruction of that view is an infringement of that right:

"When nude, I felt I had left my modesty in my bedroom with my clothes. I accepted once I stepped out of my bedroom I was on full display to the girls and should not expect to be afforded any modesty. . . To me the most appropriate thing to do was allowed the girls to look. Covering myself seemed to me to be rude and disrespectful to the girls."

Any more opinions?

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