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] Date Posted:03:53:58 03/25/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 71.179.1.15 In reply to:
Lily to Joe
's message, "Re: swimming memories" on 10:10:38 03/18/25 Tue
Sounds like that would have left it a bit red and sore, which I'm sure would have been embarrassing in public, especially with no hair down there. It must have been very infantalizing to be treated like that. Were you embarrassed about that and having no hair and no doubt still looking young as a teenager? I certainly was by 15, at least when people know my age, otherwise I would pretend to be younger. Things like having suncream put on my body in public, head to toe, we're also very infantalizing, I assume you were treated in a similar way?
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Date Posted:09:51:31 03/25/25 Tue Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80
>Sounds like that would have left it a bit red and
>sore, which I'm sure would have been embarrassing in
>public, especially with no hair down there. It must
>have been very infantalizing to be treated like that.
>Were you embarrassed about that and having no hair and
>no doubt still looking young as a teenager? I
>certainly was by 15, at least when people know my age,
>otherwise I would pretend to be younger. Things like
>having suncream put on my body in public, head to toe,
>we're also very infantalizing, I assume you were
>treated in a similar way?
Were you at least allowed to put the sunscreen on your privates yourself, or was it put on by your mom or other females?
Date Posted:10:52:18 03/27/25 Thu Author Host/IP: 71.179.1.15
No, it was pretty much always put on my private area (in my case not very private!) by my mom or other females. My mom and friend's mom would simply wipe it on like any other part of my body while applying it to my belly, bottom, legs and feet.
My older sister and her friend would usually leave that part to my mom or make a joke while doing it, I think because they were less comfortable.
But I was honestly never asked to do it myself probably because I was viewed as too immature, and I just accepted it I guess because it was what I was used to.