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Subject: Re: Questions MY ANSWERS


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Sarah
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Date Posted: 00:07:05 03/22/26 Sun
In reply to: Sarah 's message, "Questions To Get Discussion Going" on 18:03:38 03/21/26 Sat

Have to say to everyone, especially my friend Sonya, that I hope noone judges my answers too hard. I am blushing answering my own questions, but I adore everyone's answers so far and love how diverse they are, but we all agree discipline is important. And hey if some of my ways of doing things in these answers inspires someone or gets convo and questions going then it is good.

It was very much a it takes a community childhood for me, mom spanked, sitters, church friends, alot of other friends moms, but friends got it from mine too sometimes both of us together! lol

Yes we attend church every week its important I think, we attend same one I did as a child. An evangelical church, and there is a room they use for discipline, ive been there a fair bit myself but moreso now with my own too, son mostly gets hyper and such at church lol

I am stricter in some ways than my mom is, alot of it at her insistence, shell tell me where she could have been stricter when I was a girl and that experience is valuable, her mother spanked her as well often. But I also feel I manage to incorporate alot more loving care into the process especially comfort after

In some ways society is heading back to spanking publicly anyhow, I dont think it really ever left, alot of parents and I mean ALOT many just keep it quiet now, real shame, how many out there you think could use advice but too afraid to reach out because of stigma?

I and my children have witness plenty of public spankings, alot in the church room, a large number in public restroooms where I always stop to praise the mother doing the discipline. I like family restrooms lots of room, lock on the door for the spanking and sometimes corner too. seen it at campsites, friends home ESPECIALLY my close friends pool in yard

Oh I INSIST my babysitters spank if the kids need it at all, or test them, but thats because i trust our sitter implicitly shes a daughter of a church friends, experienced and mature and I showed her how I wanted discipline done.
Been a sitter since I was a teen, and based on moms advice I will not babysit if I do not have spank privileges.

We can no have as many expectations for teenagers, let them be kids to a point.

We do a homeschool slash thing through out church with my friends family so the kids aren't on their own.

Yes I was the out till streetlights came on as a kid and you BETTER be there when u hear your full name yelled across neighborhood lol

what could be interesting is if people added their own questions to this thread and we can all have fun answering and reading :)

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Re: Questions MY ANSWERS re: babysitters and spankingSonya to Sarah17:09:41 04/06/26 Mon


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