Name (required):

  Expression ^{(Optional mood/title along with your name) Examples: (happy, sad, The Joyful, etc.) help)}

  E-mail address (optional):

* Type your message here:
>Dang I was kinda hoping you would, I have a few mom >friends in person but when theyre busy i dunno >sometimes i feel alone in being strict, I know I am >not but alot of times dont feel the support cos I dont >hear from people much > >So often, you're both in the room her lecturing and >you spanking, teamwork ! > >Yes you can deliver a pretty sound spanking by hand, I >know I can! and its a more close feeling hand to >bottom, just how it was designed. > >BUT I would say this, they likely SHOULD be regular, I >mean I increased how often I discipline up to 2 or 3 >times a week, I don't make up reasons of course, just >watch the smaller things we can work on or correct, i >also give tons of overboard enthusiastic praise even >for small victories, lots of cuddles and all the usual > >Not everyone needs to do it this way of course, or >this often, but I know from experience it works very >very well especially with the little boys ive cared >for. > >But yeah, that many spankings in an average week for >them would not do any harm besides a red bottom for a >little while and better attitudes. And if someone >tries a stricter approach for a period of time and >decides its not right for their family, no harm done > >What type of things usually earn a spanking? how do >you handle things if they misbehave when out say >shopping or church (if you go)? > >How many smacks would you say you give with your hand? > > > >>As they have gotten older it has been more effective >>for me to be the one. Mom does the scolding and I >>give the spankings. >> >>I wouldn’t say the spankings are regular but not >>weekly or anything. >> >>The spankings are in their bedrooms and I sit in the >>bed and turn them over my knee. Pants and underwear >>are always down and I only use my hand. >> >>>Well it is important to have that care from mom , but >>>if you do most of it thats okay too, why only in last >>>couple years did something change? >>> >>>I would love to talk privately too btw yours arent >>>THAT far away from mine in ages, but I know not >>>everyone may be up for that. I usually do attach >email >>>address just in case though >>> >>>Do you need to discipline often, is there a specific >>>routine/method you use?

Note: This forum is moderated -- new posts are not visible until approved.

Notice: Copies of your message may remain on this and other systems on internet. Please be respectful.