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>>I thought I would talk about the methods I find >>useful, would love to hear how you do things or if you >>have questions for me. >> >>I usually will sit on sofa in living room but of >>course sometimes not possible, I take my time to >>lecture/talk with them, i ask them questions, we talk >>about what they did why it was wrong, they say sorry, >>I reassure them I love them and they are forgiven once >>the spankings done. >> >>Then over lap, its quite a lengthy hand spanking, I >>will add some wooden spoon spanks at the end depending >>on offence. After corner time, we talk and I comfort >>them as much as they need. > >That sounds like a very caring and fair protocol you >have going. IMO, spanking gets a bad name because of >those who over do it, or do it spontaneously out of >anger. Older kids and teens, young adults especially, >respond better when there is a good discussion >beforehand and they understand where they went wrong. >Plus, knowing what to do to avoid that consequence. >Then follow through with the spanking and a brief >follow-up chat once it's done to let them know the >issue is settled, case closed, go ahead and move on.

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