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>I am glad you and your fiance are discussing things >like this. As part of marriage prep it is essential >that this type of thing be discussed and a consensus >reached. > >In my mind there is no doubt that if a parent is going >to spank, it should be done bare. > > >1. It provides consistency from spanking to spanking. >Shorts, jeans, pajamas, pants, etc. are all of >different thicknesses. The ouch of a spanking should >not depend on what the child happens to be wearing at >the time. > >2. The parent can see the developing redness and >better judge the spanking desired, without under or >over doing it. > >3. Frankly, it hurts more. I can deliver sufficient >punishment with fewer spanks that way. Or, if the >misbehavior was very severe, it really makes a long >spanking > memorable. > >4. It actually makes all spankings more memorable,-- >perhaps it is such things as the preparation and the >slap sounds. > >5. Whatever, it is more effective. As a youth director >in our Catholic diocese I often have occasion to >discuss this with parents. One thing I have notices is >in general children who are spanked bare are better >behaved then children spanked over clothing. Also >parents who say they tried spanking but it didn't >work, all spanked over clothing. > >Wishing you the best, > >Taylor

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