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>Hey Hon > >They sound like great kids and Brian like most boys >this age does like cuddles and comfort all the time, >and I love it and its so cute and I will miss it. It >can be hard for boys to sometimes show that emotional >side and not be embarrassed. > >SO all I can say is, when you do try and help by >finding the areas you can work on together to apply >more discipline frequently, well it helps them to be >able to access that emotional, mommy-cuddle mode >easier. > >maybe talk to hubby about this next part, I think it >could be interesting to hear his thoughts on it, when >we are in a couple we don't always express all our >thoughts about such things, but its good to discuss. >And I am sure he adores seeing you interact with them >as a mom, whether its to teach lessons or have a silly >pillow fight lol > >Sonya, please hear me on this I hear it all the time >how parents miss it, when he is at the age he is now >is the time to do it if there ever was one, we will >all miss that part of this age, so embrace him, help >them embrace it > >Treasure this time too, I know I am, hopefully lots of >precious memories, but the sweet moments you >described here, well made me think hmmm yes , Brian >would indeed benefit from perhaps an approach leading >to many more of such times .. > >My son like yours immediately crawls into my lap >after, and does it when not spanking time too lol he >likes the comfort right away, rubbing his back and >reassuring him, wiping his tears as he gets snot and >tears onto my shirt, thanks kid lol > >My daughter, just needs a few minutes after. she will >come for comfort and cuddles, but usually after shes >rubbed some sting out and did a little dance and put >undies back on. > >Its interesting how different different kids reactions >can be to the same form of discipline.

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