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>Hi, I am in north central USA. I have 3 kids, 2 girls >and 1 boy. Isabella is 12, Tim is 10 and Carly is 9. > >Spanking is my primary punishment but I utilize >secondary ones as well at times. All three can be a >handful but for different reasons. Isabella is >tempermental, moody and at times can be quite >disrespectful. > >Tim has a great disposition and is easy to get along >with but he's not very ambitious and seems to need >several bare bottom reminders to do his chores, or not >get lazy at school etc. > >Carly is probably the smartest of the 3 but she is >hyper, talks non-stop and can really wear on my >nerves. She is also kind of set in her ways and a bit >obsessive/compulsive. She likes her routine and if it >gets messed with look out. > >The two girls don't get along very well either. Tim & >Isabella kind of run hot and cold which mostly depends >on whether Izzy is in a good mood or not. > >Tim & Carly have a sweet relationship and those 2 are >good together they seem to have a genuine fondness >for each other. I don't really know why but they >support each other. Tim can seem to settle her at >times, and for whatever reason she listens to him, >more than me that is for sure. > >I am constantly learning as well. Sometimes I kind of >think in too traditional a way. You know I think the >boy can clean the garage and mow the lawn and I will >get the girls to clean the house and do the laundry. > >In our house the boy does the best (most meticulous) >cleaning work (when I can get him started???) I am >getting better at that, and Carly prefers outdoors >work. > >So now I just say listen guys this is what needs to >get done this week how are we going to split it up? >That works way better generally speaking. > >We don't seem to go very long without someones or >multiple undies coming down and when that happens it >seems like things settle down at least for a little >while.

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