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Subject: Re: Hi, new Mom here


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Taylor
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Date Posted: 12:26:06 04/21/26 Tue
In reply to: Maria 's message, "Hi, new Mom here" on 12:06:25 04/17/26 Fri

Hi Maria,

Glad to meet you. I am Mom of a seven/almost eight year old DD and 18 month old DS. I also work as the youth director in a large Catholic parish. This has given me some insight into the status of parental discipline these days. And I must say the trend is in our direction!

I was raised in a strict family, and have always supported spanking, even as a kid and through the social worker program in college (which was overwhelmingly liberal).

But, our daughter was adopted, which unintentionally caused us to be lax in discipline. But it became obvious we were doing her no favors. We started spanking more frequently and vigorously. She is better behaved and happier. We will not make that mistake with her brother, or other children we may be blessed with.

Spanking is now my only punishment used when discipline (which means learning, the word coming from the same Greek word as disciple) calls for punishment. When the anti=family agenda attacked spanking they were actually attacking all forms of parental punishment. Indeed today the "experts" openly say there should be no punishments at all. Spanking is really my only punishment. I use timouts, but it is not really a punishment, but used as a time to cool down and reflect.

Thank you for your well worded synopsis of the philosophy we share!

Taylor

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