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Subject: Re: Basics of our discipline


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Taylor
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Date Posted: 12:35:24 03/20/26 Fri
In reply to: Sarah 's message, "Basics of our discipline" on 03:13:35 03/11/26 Wed
 Sarah, I commend you for spanking with love. I believe it is not only important, but essential. A parent should not spank if it is not done with love, and love that is apparent to the child.

However, I do not do a lot of talking before the spanking. My seven year old knows the reason she is getting it. As far as specifics I bare her rear and plop her over my lap. Generally I spank in her bedroom, or on the living room couch. I like her legs and shoulders to be supported and bottom over my lap. I spank with my hand, alternating swats on cheeks, I spank until I see the results I am looking for--a very red bottom and real crying, sobs, not protest crying.

It is then that I comfort her and we talk about why the spanking was needed.

I do not do corner time after a spanking. I do use it sometimes as a lesser punishment however. I think it has a little more punishment quality than just a timeout

Taylor
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Re: Basics of our disciplineSarah13:19:45 03/20/26 Fri

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