| Subject: Re: Lam sao de giu duoc tinh yeu mai "nong am" nhu ngay moi quen. |
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Date Posted: Mon, Nov 19 2001, 3:08:05
In reply to:
Ca Dao
's message, "Lam sao de giu duoc tinh yeu mai "nong am" nhu ngay moi quen." on Sun, Nov 18 2001, 23:19:35
Duoc chu*'!. Toi doan'ban. cung vao`lua'tuoi 27-28 , nhung toi khong biet Nhoc'bao nhieu tuoi va tanh'tinh`cua Nhoc'. Chi co ban co the tra~loi`va`tim`duoc giai phai'lam`the nao`giu duoc tinh`yeu mai mai . It takes two to tango .Ca~hai deu phai co' y'xay dung nen tang~(foundation) lau dai` va`cai nha`(hay la^u ddai`tinh`ai')co'dep. la`do cong suc cua hai nguoi`.
Co'nhung yeu to sau day de giup tinh`yeu vung ben:
1. commitment: ca hai deu tu*. cam ket va cam ket voi nhau de song va yeu lau dai`.
2.compromises:co'nhung viec khac'biet giua hai nguoi`thi`tim`cach'dung hoa`va`doi khi cung can^` nhuong nhin lan nhau .
3.caring: lo va san soc cho nhau . Moi ngay`van hoi? tham xem nguoi`ban tinh`cua? minh`ra sao , co van de gi nan giai ? . Neu minh`la`nguoi`lon tuoi hon , thi`lam`nguoi`huong dan (provide guidance) va luon luon la`nguoi ho^? tro*. (support).
4.devotion: luc'nao`cung a^n can^`, lo lang day du cho nguoi tinh`tu*`mieng an( , mieng ao', bai`vo*? neu em trai con`di hoc . , hay lo giay to*`, cong viec, xe co^. co' ddu? xang v...v... cho ban. tinh`neu^' nguoi`nay`moi^? sang'phai? di lam` o*? cho^? xa .
5.hy sinh: nhu~ng luc'kho^'n cung`, khi nguoi`ban tinh`mat cong an viec lam`, thi`minh`la`nguoi nuong tua ganh'vac'viec nha`, tien^` cho*. de cho nguoi`ban. minh`khong lo au nua~. Khi nguoi`ban. tinh`cua minh`bi. dau om nang , hay bi. ddui que`, minh`van^? o*? canh ben nguoi`ban. , dem lai. tinh`yeu va` hy vong.
6.generosity: rong luong tha thu*'khi nguoi`ban minh`co loi`noi'hay hanh`ddong khong phu`hop. voi'ban? ti'nh cua minh`. Chap nhan nhung loi la^`m cua minh`va cua ban minh`.
Khong do^`n nhung viec nho? de^? lam`chuyen lo*'n va`ga^y go^? voi'ba.n minh`.
7. respect: luon luon ton trong y nghi , loi`noi va`hanh ddong cua? ban tinh`. Tim`hieu nguyen do cua? loi`noi va`hanh`ddong cua? ban minh` de^? thong ca?m va`chia xe? .
8.trust: luon luon dat niem tin ban. tinh`cua minh`la`mot nguoi`trung tru*.c. Khong bao gio`nghi ngo*`ban. minh`la`
gian di ngoai. tinh`(cheating). Doi khi ban. minh`di lam`ve^` tre^? , neu minh`ngo*`vuc*. cho la`ban. minh`di ngoai. tinh`...roi`tu*`cai~lon^. nho? ddua dden su*. ddo^? be^? .
9.responsibility: trong tinh`yeu ca^`n co y'thuc'trach
nhiem. Khong phai vi`chung ta khong co hon thu', hay khong co'con , chung ta duong nhien bo? nguoi`yeu ra ddi ddot^. ngo^t. Khi hai nguoi`yeu nhau dda~ lau va`ddau^` tu* biet bao nhieu thoi gian va`xuc'cam? ( time and emotions) , vi mot chuyen hieu lam hay mot chuyen cai~va~, cham^' du*'t tinh`yeu dde^? chay. theo mot tinh`ao? la`nguoi`ddo'thieu trach nhiem va`chin'chan( maturity). Trach nhiem cua? nguoi YEU bao gom nhieu lanh vuc dde^? ddem lai. cho ban. tinh`cua? minh`SECURITY and COMFORT trong ddoi`song^' .
10. improvement:trong ddoi`song lu*á ddo^i hai nguoi`trai luc'nao`cung~muon tha(ng tie^'n cuoc song thuc te (tien bac, vat chat, nghe nghiep) va`trau doi`quan he voi gia ddinh`cha me anh em , quan he voi ban be`va`xa hoi .
Co'nhu* vay hai nguoi trai moi'co HANH PHUC that su trong TINH YEU vung ben .
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