| Subject: Re: Hay tra loi cho toi ! |
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jonni
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Date Posted: Mon, Feb 25 2002, 12:07:02
In reply to:
Le Hong Bao
's message, "Hay tra loi cho toi !" on Mon, Feb 25 2002, 2:48:41
Anh Bao
baygio anh Bao tam su , jonni moi hieu anh Bao va thong cam voi anh .Xin phep anh Bao cho jonni trinh bay` quan diem jonni hoc hoi duoc .
1. Gay roi ket cuc ra sao ? gay khong phai roi se bi tieu diet di .Lich su cho thay thoi nao` cung co gay va o dau cung co gay . Tu Plato, Socrates den Shakespeare, Oscar Wilde, Leonardo da Vinci, Michelangelo,Alexander the Great, Tchaikovsky,Verlaine, Rimbaud, Proust,den Nha tho Xuan Dieu , Huy Can , Vua Khai Dinh ... ho cung gay va la nhung nguoi co dia vi trong xa hoi. Gay khong phai la xau xa, khong phai la benh hoan , khong phai la toi loi.Hoi American Psychiatric Association da loai bo dinh nghia sai lam nay` (1972) Vien Y Te Quoc Gia (National Institute of Health cua My~)dang nghien cuu "gay gene" o nhung cap trai sinh do^i.
Gay van co the dong gop ich loi cho xa hoi, cho quoc gia vi` ban lanh , tam huyet va tai nang cua ho.
2. Cho phep jonni trinh bay voi anh dien tien tam ly'(process) cua mot nguoi gay :
Khi mot thanh nien bat dau biet minh` gay , ho. co nhung xung dot (conflict) voi chinh' minh` , gia dinh` va xa hoi
Voi chinh minh , ho phai mai~ phan dau va dau kho , de nen' ban tinh' gay , cho la khong thien nhien , bat binh thuong ....ho. nhu bi. xieng xich' va phu? nhan ban tinh gay , lo au va di tim` cai' "minh`" (identity).Ho. phai tu*. giai phong' ho. (self liberated), tim` cai' tu*. do
tu do yeu nguoi dong gioi , tu chap nhan minh` , ban tinh' gay cua minh` (self acceptance). Giai doan nay cac sach bao My~ goi. la` "coming out to self" nghia la minh chap nhan minh` la` gay va thay thoai mai' voi ban tinh' gay cua minh`, va khong thay dan vat nua , khong thay dau kho nua . Giai doan nay khong co y nghia la` ho se boc lo het voi gia dinh` va xa hoi (come out to his family etc...).
Co nguoi thi di den giai doan nay thoi va van song thoai mai , tim mot the^' can^ bang` trong doi` song voi gia dinh cha me , va xa hoi , hay voi cac dong nghiep trong cho lam` viec .Ho co the co nhung nguoi yeu dong gioi va song kin dao' . Ho co the tim hanh phuc rieng tu cho ho.
Cau nay` la` de tra loi` cho anh Bao : Gay de lam` gi` ? de ket cuc ra sao ? Ve phuong dien ca' nhan Gay duoc huong nhan quyen la` quyen tu do yeu duong , quyen tu do song va theo duoi hanh phuc' rieng tu cua minh` !Jonni xin trich ra day ban? Tuyen Ngon Nhan Quyen cua Lien Hiep Quoc:
article 3: Everyone has the right to life, liberty and security of person.
article 19 : Everyone has the right to freedom of opinion and expression
Ngay ca ong Thomas Jefferson cung da~ viet trong ban Tuyen Ngon Doc Lap 1776 ...Dang Tao Hoa' danh` cho nguoi` nhung quyen SONG, TU DO va theo duoi HANH PHUC.
Jonni hy vong anh Bao se bot lo au va song hanh phuc.
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