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Duy
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Date Posted: Mon, Dec 24 2001, 12:10:24
In reply to:
Zen
's message, ""Be^.nh" -do^`ng ti'nh luye^'n a'i" on Mon, Dec 24 2001, 0:17:24
Chao Zen va cac ban:
Toi thay rat tam dac voi nhung gi ma Zen da bay to trong message cua minh... theo y kien cua toi, nhung gi ma nguoi khac nghi ve chung ta nhieu khi lai chinh la su phan anh nhung gi chung ta nghi ve chinh minh. Neu ban than ban khong that su ton trong minh, thi se rat kho de lam cho nguoi khac tin rang ban dang duoc ton trong. Ve van de gay cung vay... Ban than toi da khong chi mot lan noi voi nhung nguoi ban cua minh, ca nuoc ngoai va Vietnam, rang toi la gay, va hau nhu tat ca nhung nguoi do deu hoi lai: "Vay thi sao?" or "so what?"... toi da chua he gap phai mot su phan biet hay coi thuong nao tu nhung nguoi ma toi da come out with... khong biet co phai do chi la mot su tinh co may man hay khong? mot nguoi ban gai cua toi, sau khi duoc biet rang toi la gay, da "lang le theo doi toi", nhu loi co ay noi... Mot ngay, co ay noi voi toi "em chang thay anh co dieu gi bat thuong ca, tham chi em thay anh rat dan ong, dan ong hon biet bao ke cu tu vo nguc rang minh la dan ong.... Anh dung cam va trung thuc, do chinh la nhung pham chat that su cua dan ong..." Trong so nhung nguoi ban ma toi da come out, co ca nhung nguoi ma sau nay toi moi biet la ho co quan niem cung kha conservative ve chuyen do, song khong ai da to ra khinh thuong toi, boi toi da, dang, va se co gang cu xu mot cach that dang hoang, cung nhu co gang trong cong viec... Rat co the ban se bao toi dang noi ly thuyet, song toi tin rang tu tin va ton trong minh la cach duy nhat de van co the song voi chinh minh, ma khong phai to ra "yem the".... Mot vai nguoi ban ma toi da lam quen thuong co thai do rat bi quan, ho noi toi may man vi toi la gay dep trai, co cong viec tot, duoc ban be va gia dinh ton trong... Khong phu nhan rang toi co the co mot so may man hon nguoi khac, song may man da chang bao gio la tat ca, phai khong? ... chang nhe cuoc song chi danh cho nhung nguoi dep trai va co cong viec that tot hay sao? neu ban dong y voi toi rang cung co mot xa hoi thu nho danh cho nhung nguoi gay, ban se phai dong y rang ban cung nhu toi thuoc ve mot cong dong lon, voi nhung ca the rat khac nhau ve nguon goc gia dinh, hoc van, hay hinh thuc, va cong viec... va trong so nhung nguoi do, chan chan se co nhieu nguoi thay ban la dang yeu, dang quy, dau rang co the ban khong dep trai, cung chang lam viec cho mot cong ty nuoc ngoai linh luong 5-700 USD mot thang... toi nghi rang, chung ta co the va can phai song voi su tu tin va ton trong danh cho chinh minh, voi chinh nhung gi ma chung ta dang co... neu khong, co the chung ta da tu "giet chet" chinh minh truoc khi su thieu thong cam hay tham chi phan biet doi xu cua nhung nguoi mac chung "homophobia" co the lam duoc dieu do...
Mong duoc trao doi y kien cung cac ban...
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