| Subject: Khong nen lap GVA tai Vietnam vao thoi diem nay! (5 Aug 01) |
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Date Posted: Tue, Sep 04 2001, 14:19:15
In reply to:
LeParia
's message, "Unite to fight for gay right! (26 Jul 01)" on Tue, Sep 04 2001, 13:18:54
Xin gui cac anh Le Paria, Hoa, Nice Guys, Admin va cac ban quan tam than men,
Co the co nhieu ban se thay khong hai long ve tieu de thu cua toi, va co nhieu nguoi se cho rang toi la nguoi khong tich cuc, chi thich ban lui. Du sao thi toi cung rat cam on moi nguoi da doc thu nay va duoi day la mot vai y kien nho cua toi ve viec lap hoi GVA tai Vietnam, cu the hon la tai Saigon.
1. Ve viec lap Hoi GVA, nhu nhieu ban da noi, la rat can Thien thoi, Dia loi va Nhan hoa. The chung ta da co nhung gi?
Ve mat Thien thoi, cho du gan day co rat nhieu bai bao, co nhieu bai tich cuc va co nhieu bai tieu cuc ve gay, dem den nhieu cai nhin tu nhieu goc do khac nhau toi cong chung, giup ho co mot cai nhin bot tieu cuc hon ve van de gay. Tuy nhien, co ban nao dam khang dinh, nhung hien tuong nay da giup moi nguoi hieu gay la gi va nhung nguoi gay la nhu the nao chua? Mat khac, viec thanh lap moi Hoi doan, dac biet la Hoi doan cho nhung nguoi dong tinh tai Vietnam neu tro thanh hien thuc thi rat co the no se gay ra mot cu "shock tam ly" doi voi xa hoi Vietnam. Nhung he luy cua cu shock nay, thu hoi trong chung ta, da ai du doan no xay ra nhu the nao? Con theo toi, tu goc do chinh quyen va cac nha quan ly ma noi, khi ho chua thuc su duoc chuan bi ve van de nay, khi ho chua thuc su "hieu" va "thong cam" voi nhung nguoi dong tinh thi viec cho phep mot hoi nay ra doi trong khong biet ro duoc ban chat cua van de va khong kiem soat duoc hoat dong cua Hoi se thuc su la mot kho khan lon va se co nhieu kha nang, ho se khong cho phep Hoi ra doi trong thoi diem nay hoac it nhat, se pending viec thanh lap trong mot thoi han indefinitely!
Cach day hai nam, Quoc hoi da tung dua ra viec nay trong khi sua doi Luat Hon nhan va gia dinh, song da phai gac lai vi thuc su chua co ai dam noi la hieu biet ve van de nay, ke ca cac bac si va cac nha tam ly hoc, va hon nua la chua co ai to ra san sang bao ve quyen loi cho nhung nguoi dong tinh ca. Ta phai chap nhan mot thuc te la "van de nguoi dong tinh" o Vietnam la mot van de thuc su moi, co the coi khe ho cua Phap luat Vietnam, nam ngoai su dieu chinh cua phap luat mot cach tuong doi, vi nguoi ta chua nhan thuc va quan tam day du den no. Vi vay, trong thoi diem hien tai, co the coi chua phai la thoi diem thuan loi cho mot Hiep hoi bao ve nhung nguoi dong tinh ra doi!
Ve mat dia loi, co the thanh pho Ho Chi Minh hien la noi tap trung nhieu nguoi dong tinh nhat (mot cach tuong doi vi chua co so lieu cu the ve viec nay) song so luong cua nhung nguoi gay cung nhu vi tri cua thanh pho cung chua dam bao duoc, viec lap Hoi gay o day co thich hop hay khong.
Ve mat nhan hoa, toi doc thay nhieu y kien ung ho viec lap nay. Song trong nhung nguoi cong khai va nhiet tinh tham gia forum, da bao nhieu nguoi ung ho GVA o Vietnam ? Toi dem co hoc thay it hon 10 nguoi! Co the co nhieu nguoi ung ho mot cach kin dao, song cai GVA o Vietnam can la nhung nguoi dong tinh hoat dong tich cuc va thuc su co dong gop cho viec cai thien tinh hinh cua gay o Vietnam. Chung ta da co bao nhieu nguoi nhu the? Toi chua thay ai ca ! Da co bao nhieu nguoi dong tinh o Vietnam va o thanh pho HCM out voi gia dinh, ban be? Toi cho la rat it! Thu hoi trong nhung nguoi out, co bao nhieu nguoi thuc su ung ho viec thanh lap GVA ? Toi cho la chi co mot so luong nhat dinh thoi! Ngay ca trong Voy.com/27186 cua chung ta, da bao nhieu nguoi cong khai ten tuoi cua minh ?!! (ke ca toi, vi toi nghi viec cong khai nay chang co y nghia gi). Xin hay dung nghi, viec lap GVA se giup nguoi ta tro nen tu tin hon, san sang out hoac dem den cho nhung nguoi dong tinh mot giai phap song, thoat khoi su "be tac". Nhung rao can ve mat tam ly, van hoa va xa hoi se mai mai can tro nhung nguoi gay dam yeu, dam song chi cho rieng minh! Dieu nay cung co nghia, ve mat Nhan ma noi thi cung chi co hoa` mot cach tuong doi thoi, chua phai la right time!
2. Toi thay moi nguoi tap trung ban luan ve tinh hop hien cua GVA nhieu hon chu chang ban ve viec GVA se hoat dong ra sao va GVA se giup do duoc nhung nguoi dong tinh song trong thanh pho nhu the nao. Ma nhung van de ban chat do moi can duoc ban bac va thao luan mot cach cu the, tranh khong de mot Hoi GVA ra doi tro thanh hinh thuc va cuoi cung chet yeu! Mot Hiep hoi se chi thuc su co suc manh va hieu qua khi no co dinh huong dung dan, co nhung thanh vien tam huyet va duoc so dong ung ho. Chung ta dang lan mo quanh viec lam cai vo? cua hop qua chu chua nghi den chuyen se nhet cai gi vao cai vo do!
3. Trong luc GVA con chua thuc hien duoc, tai sao chung ta khong nghi ra nhieu cach tiep can khac voi nguoi gay ? Giong nhu doi voi nhung nguoi bi benh AIDS, da co nhung bar, club hoac trung tam tai Thanh pho HCM va Hanoi la nhung dia chi tin cay de giup ho tro nen tu tin hon trong cuoc song, giup nhung nguoi quan tam co cai nhin thong cam hon ve nguoi bi benh AIDS. Toi thu dua ra mot de xuat nho nho la chung ta co the tich cuc van dong mot to chuc nao do nhu Doan thanh nien, mot so bac si va nhung nha lam luat co thien cam voi gay lap nen mot trung tam tu van va giup do nhung nguoi dong tinh, van dong nhung nguoi dong tinh song lanh manh va cung cap thong tin cho nhung nguoi co quan tam den van de nhung nguoi dong tinh. Trung tam nay co the muon uy tin cua cac bac si, cac nha khoa hoc de hang thang, hang tuan co cac bai viet khoa hoc ve van de homosexual, bisexual ... de xa hoi co cai nhin dung hon ve gay.
Noi tom lai, theo y ca nhan cua toi thi hien chua phai la thoi diem thich hop va cung chua can thien de thanh lap mot GVA o Vietnam. Toi rat cam on moi nguoi da doc message nay va san sang trao doi them voi cac ban ve viec nay o tren Voy.com/27186/
Chuc cac ban mot tuan lam viec vui ve.
Than,
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