| Subject: Dam dao voi ban Thanh Binh (20 Jun 01) |
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Quan
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Date Posted: Mon, Sep 03 2001, 0:12:36
In reply to:
Thanh Binh
's message, "Lam sao de ta cam nhan duoc hanh phuc? Gui cac ban: Song Thuong, Friend, Khong thich tranh luan. (15 Jun 01)" on Mon, Sep 03 2001, 0:11:18
Cau noi ma ban Thanh Binh suu tam khong phai la mot cau noi moi me. Xua nay da co nhieu nha hien triet, ke ca Duc Phat, da kham pha ra chan ly nay roi. Tuy nhien, xa hoi cang van minh hien dai, nhu cau vat chat cang cao, nguoi ta cang it chap nhan dieu nay. Nhieu nguoi hieu khong het va hieu khong dung y nghia cua cau noi nay.
"Ham muon" la mot trang thai thuoc ban nang cua con nguoi. Da "ham muon" thi phai "thoa man" no. Neu thoa man duoc thi xem nhu la hanh phuc, con neu khong thoa man duoc thi qua that la bat hanh, kho so.
Khai niem "ham muon" khong chi gioi han o chuyen tinh duc, ma o moi phuong dien khac trong cuoc song. Co nguoi ham muon chuyen ai an, co nguoi ham muon tien bac, co nguoi ham muon dia vi, co nguoi ham muon duoc noi tieng. Co nhung ham muon cho rieng minh, lai co nhung ham muon danh cho nguoi khac (ham thich lam dieu thien).
Pham o doi khong phai moi ham muon deu "duoc thoa man" hoac "duoc phep thoa man". Ma ngay ca khi thoa man duoc mot ham muon, thi cung chua chac la hanh phuc, vi keo theo sau do la nhung hau qua ma cai "su thoa man" kia mang lai.
Moi nguoi deu co su ham muon rieng, va co gang bao ve cho su ham muon cua minh, cho rang ham muon ay la chinh dang. Co nguoi con cho rang ham muon la dong luc cua su phat trien. Nguoi khac cho rang song phai co ham muon moi la song, con neu khong thi chang khac nao la mot thay tu. Nhung y kien nay cung dung chu.
Tuy nhien, dau phai ham muon nao cung duoc thoa man, dau phai su thoa man nao cung duoc mang lai hanh phuc cho con nguoi. Nhieu nguoi khong biet gan loc nhung ham muon trong minh, cu de mac ban nang (instinct) dat di dau thi di, den cuoi cuoc doi co tim thay duoc hanh phuc chang?
Do do, cac bac hien nhan thuong noi: “Nguoi hoc rong hieu nhieu khong han la nguoi co tri thuc, lai cang khong han la nguoi biet tao ra hanh phuc cho minh.”
Cai goc cua "Hanh phuc" khong phai la o cho "duoc thoa man", ma chinh la o cho "khong co ham muon nao chua duoc thoa man".
Cai goc cua "Dau kho" khong phai la o cho "khong duoc thoa man", ma chinh la o cho "co nhieu ham muon, nhung khong co dieu kien de thoa man ham muon do".
Do vay, nguoi xua noi "muon dung kho^? thi dung ham muon nhieu".
Nguoi co thu nhap thap ma luon mo tuong den chuyen an sang mac dep thi bi su them khat day vo la chuyen duong nhien.
Song ma khong kiem soat duoc ban than minh, tu minh tao ra bao nhieu thu ham muon, de roi phai di tim cach giai quyet ham muon do, thi do chi la "vui thu trong choc lat" chu lam sao goi la "hanh phuc" duoc.
Muon song hanh phuc, dung di tim “hanh phuc”, ma hay nhin ro cai goc “dau kho” la o dau de ma tranh. Tranh duoc “dau kho”, thi duong nhien cam thay “hanh phuc” va song thoai mai.
Mot con nguoi co loi song dieu do, ham muon mot chut, vui buon mot chut, biet minh biet nguoi, thong dong tu tai, ha chang phai la nguoi hanh phuc sao?
Toi choi mot chut nhung toi khong ghien, toi thu mot chut nhung toi khong sa da, khi that vui toi cung biet luc dung lai, khi that buon toi cung tim ra loi thoat. Con gi dep hon duoc song giua cuoc doi nay ma ta hoan toan lam chu no?
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