| Subject: Re: Tinh yeu Gay co lau ben khong nhi? (27 Jun 01) |
Author:
hoa`
|
[
Next Thread |
Previous Thread |
Next Message |
Previous Message
]
Date Posted: Mon, Sep 03 2001, 1:53:28
In reply to:
em
's message, "Re: Tinh yeu Gay co lau ben khong nhi? (26 Jun 01)" on Mon, Sep 03 2001, 1:52:15
Ban Newcomer:
Toi song trong 1 moi truong khac de dang cho viec cap trai yeu nhau va o voi nhau nhieu nam .Le di nhien cung co nhung nguoi` GAY den voi' nhau vi` tinh` duc vi sac dep be ngoai` v..v.. nhu cac ban. noi' . Nhung cung co nhung nguoi` khac tim tinh` yeu that su va` song chung voi nhau nhieu nam. Do' la` nhung nguoi` ban cua toi ...Ho song voi nhau va yeu nhau 10 nam roi` , co' cap nay cung duoc. 6 nam . va chinh' toi co' 1 cuoc tinh` 3 nam va` 1 cuoc tinh 7 nam ...Trong 1 message truoc toi co' noi nhung yeu to de giu lau ben 1 tinh yeu gay . De tra loi` cau hoi cua ban Newcomer cho toi chia xe voi ban. cuoc tinh cua chung toi va kinh nghiem cua chung toi . Khong phai la` cap GAY nao` cung se song tuong tu nhu vay .
Moi lien he cua 2 nguoi GAY yeu nhau gap nhieu kho khan va dau kho ...theo toi nghi ....con kho' khan hon la cap vo chong trai gai yeu nhau .
Co nhung kho khan va dau kho ve phuong dien kinh te , tien bac khi chung toi song chung voi nhau , ve phuong dien nhung cam do the xac nguoi yeu minh chay theo nguoi khac, ve phuong dien ban trai khac ghen ghet dam thoc phan ly hai dua chung toi v...v... nhieu lam' dang cay noi' sao cho het' ....
Nhung sau 2 cuoc tinh cua toi , toi ngoi lai phan tich duong huong cho toi di .
1. Suy gam ve lien he giua hai dua chung toi ( our relationship)
2 Suy gam ve lien he cua hai dua chung toi doi voi gia dinh` hai ben, xa hoi , ban be chung va ton giao hai ben.( our confrontation with our families , friends and religions)
1. Giua hai dua chung toi co nhung kho khan tren 3 phuong dien sau :
a) the xac va tinh duc : khi yeu thi phai co' tinh duc ...
Sau 1 thoi gian chan goi chung toi cam thay khong con hap dan voi nhau nua , tinh duc giam dan va khong thay hung thu lam tinh` nua .Doi khi con coi la 1 cuc hinh , lam` cho co le^. hoac lam` cho xong bon phan....co' ca thang chung toi khong lam tinh voi' nhau ...mac du chung toi cung theo nhung lop hoc ve sexuality, coi video de thu*? nhung positions lam tang kich thich tinh duc hay di tim nhung cuc khoai khac thuong (orgasms)..O day toi xin cac' ban coi mo*? va thong cam? dum toi va dung trach chung toi la qui? quai ' nhe' ...
b) phuong dien cam? xuc' (emotional) : luc' dau chung toi trai qua 1 cuoc tinh yeu say me lang man (passionate and romantic love)...den gio phut nay toi van con nho den 1 nu hon nong nan ma chang cho toi , nhung trong mieng hom do' cua? chang` co' vi. thuoc' dang(' .Toi hoi sao chang uong thuoc' gi dang vay ....va chang tra loi "anh suyt tu tu*? vi` em ."
6 thang sau chung toi van con yeu nhau nhung khong con dam me nhu truoc nua , chung toi van triu men , an can voi nhau ,lo lang cho nhau va thuong hay hoi tham nhau moi khi di lam ve nha` ...hai dua chung toi song chung 1 apartment rat thoai mai , luc nay tinh yeu nhe nhang va quan tam cho nhau nhieu hon (devotion and caring ). Nhung kho khan dan dan xuat hien ...nhu toi di dau ve hoi tre la co chuyen roi do' ; su tin tuong khong con nua (mistrust) mac du toi co giai thich may !!! nghi ngo, ghen, tuc gian , hon*` , lay^? ,doi khi lai. co y' tra thu` , hay lam` ha.i moi' vua` long`...nhat la` hai dua cung la` nguoi` Viet ..doi khi khong noi ro rang`, thai do lanh lung , toi cung khong biet ban toi dang gian hay buon toi chuyen gi. ....Cai'nay` khac' voi' tanh' nguoi` My~ ..Nguoi` My~ thi` noi' thang thung khac voi nguoi Viet ban toi lai. up up mo mo , noi' 1 duong` nghi 1 neo ? ...toi cung vay va` rot cuoc ...chuyen nho? chong chat voi' chuyen kia va dan dan lam tang vo cuoc tinh cua chung toi ...
c) tren phuong dien tri tue chung toi luc dau hai dua an y' nhau lam', cung ban luan voi nhau ve am nhac, cung di choi coi kich hay trien lam tranh , du lich do' day va` moi khi co' chuyen gi hai dua cung tinh' toan va` thao ? luan "tam^ dau^` y' hop " lam' ...1 nam 2 nam dan dan chung toi hay cai~ co. , nguoi nay che^ , thi nguoi kia lai. benh vuc. ; noi' 1 cau la` noi' moc' hay tra~ dua~ 1 cau khac' ; doi khi chua* kip. ban luan la` co' nguoi ngat loi` va` "thoi^ khong noi' nua~ , dep. di " ...vay la` hai ben khong hoa ` giai duoc va` tim` hieu^? xa hon * ...chung toi song chung co' khi roi` bo? be^ cong viec trong nha` , mac ke^. cho no' lam` gi` thi` lam` .Luc' dau con loi qua tieng lai...dan dan ..khong them noi' nua~ loi` ..ve nha` ham huc. va` dong cua ram^` ram^` ...roi 1 ngay` nao` do' chung' toi chi? chia tay trong thu` han^. , hoac trong lanh lung` (indifference).
2Phan nay` la` chung' toi phai duong dau voi' gia dinh` hai ben. Gia dinh` toi thi` khong chap nhan GAY. Gia dinh cua chang thi` cung khong phan doi gi lam' .Chang thi tranh ne' ben nha` toi va` khong thoai mai' voi gia dinh` toi .
The la` chung toi lai. phai dau kho noi hoai ve van de nay` khi hai dua chung toi ve nha` , toi thi nan ni? , chang thi` nhat dinh khong muon gan gui? voi may' nguoi` trong gia dinh` toi ....
con` ban. be` u * ? ban trai straight thi` chang` doi` toi phai che dau^' ...toi thi` nghi khac ' toi van cho moi nguoi` biet toi la` GAY , nhung chang lai. khong muon vay .
The la` chung toi phai dan co moi khi phai di gap ban. nay ban. kia . Voi' lang` xom' ba` con moi khi co' tiec tung`
la` chang ta tro^'n mat^' hoac la^~y o nha` ...va` nhieu khi toi phai chiu` danh` o nha` voi' chang` vay.
Con` ve` ton giao thi` hai dua lai. khac ton giao . Cuoc. tinh` truoc' thi` chang` la` Phat tu*? thanh` ra hai dua' co' nhung luc' cung` di chua` va` noi chuyen giao ly' voi' nhau ...hai dua vui ve~ voi' nhau lam' ..hai dua' da di tham nhieu chua o Thai Lan ..luc' nao` toi se ke 1 cau chuyen nay` hay lam ' cho ban. Newcomer nghe .
Ket luan bay gio` toi khong di tim` ban. yeu tram nam nua~.
2 cuoc tinh` nay` du tra loi cho ban Newcomer .
Toi nghi? ...thoi ngay` nao` co' duyen co' no*. song voi' nhau duoc. bao lau thi` cung la` mung lam' roi` ...het duyen het no*. thi` co^' o*? voi' nhau chi nua~ ....
va` cai' ly' cua? toi: SONG^' la` phai? YEU , va` toi se~ YEU mai~ cho den^' hoi tho*? cuoi cung` .
than ai,
hoa`
[
Next Thread |
Previous Thread |
Next Message |
Previous Message
]
| |
Feedback: 