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Subject: Re: Phai chang nen"song cho ban than minh" ma thoi ? (22 Jun 01)

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LeParia

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Date Posted: Tue, Sep 04 2001, 9:29:36
In reply to: Huvo 's message, "Phai chang nen"song cho ban than minh" ma thoi ? (22 Jun 01)" on Tue, Sep 04 2001, 9:28:02

Chao anh Huvo,

Cam on nhung loi gop y chan thanh cua anh. Em da doc nhieu loi nhan gui cua anh, va em luon thay no tich cuc, mang tinh xay dung va chan thanh.

Tuy vay, em cung co them mot so ban luan ve loi anh nhan gui em va Hoa'.

Thuc chat, viec song cho ban than minh khong hoan toan co nghia la minh cuop di loi ich cua nguoi khac. Hon nua, neu minh khong lo duoc cho ban than minh thi lieu minh co the lo duoc cho nguoi khac khong? Em so rang anh trich cau "tranh danh doat loi" de mieu ta cho y song vi ban than minh la hoi qua. Thuc chat, em (va co the ca Hoa') khong muon song mot cuoc doi lam lui, chi biet hy sinh nhung quyen loi va hanh phuc xung dang cua minh. Hon nua, khi minh dau kho thi lieu cha me va nhung nguoi than cua minh co hanh phuc khong. Em tin rang anh biet den cau "hai ben cung co loi - win- win approach). Day chinh la dieu ma em muon phan dau.

Tuy vay, nhung y anh noi cung rat tich cuc, em se suy ngam them va trao doi tiep voi anh. Con rieng viec anh bao la lon len xin mot dua con nuoi, huh, em rat thich y nay nhung nghiet mot noi, hinh nhu luat phap VN khong cho mot "ong duc rua" nhan con nuoi thi phai - khong biet co dung khong anh nhi?

Cam on anh.

LeParia

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