Author:
Nhom Dieu Hanh VG
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Date Posted: Sat, Sep 01 2001, 2:36:33
In reply to:
Tuan
's message, "The Gay Vietnamese Alliance (GVA)" on Sat, Sep 01 2001, 2:35:19
Than chao ban Tuan,
Viet Gays rat vui mung nhan duoc message cua ban bay to su quan tam den cong dong Gay o Viet Nam. Chung toi rat hoan nghenh y tuong cua ban ve viec thanh lap mot hoi doan cho gioi Gay Viet Nam. Truoc mat, chung toi khong dam co y kien gi hon, vi trang web chi la mot trang web tu phat do mot nhom ban be thanh lap voi hy vong tao ra mot moi truong sach va dep qua do gioi Gay Viet nam co mot san choi dung nghia, dong thoi cung tu nguyen lam nguoi mo duong de sau nay nhung hoat dong Gay co the duoc nha nuoc Viet Nam quan tam va ho tro mot cach dung dan hon.
De khong phu long cac ban o nuoc ngoai quan tam den chung toi, chung toi xin trinh bay mot so thong tin ve tinh hinh Gay o Viet Nam de cac ban hieu ro va de quyet dinh trong viec giup chung toi mo rong giao luu.
1/ Nhung nguoi dong tinh luyen ai nam (Gays) o Viet Nam ngay mot gia tang, nhung chua hinh thanh nen mot cong dong chinh thuc do cach nhin cach nghi cua nguoi Viet Nam ve Gay van chua toan dien va dung muc. Do do, gioi Gay o Viet Nam co chieu huong phan hoa thanh nhieu thanh phan khac nhau, tham chi "mau thuan" nhau do su khac biet ve trinh do, ca1 tinh, so thich, ke ca tuoi tac.
2/ Truyen thong nguoi Viet Nam van chua the chap nhan duoc chuyen "dong tinh luyen ai" la chuyen binh thuong. Ngoai tru mot so ban tre khong ngan ngai tuyen bo minh la Gay va xuat hien truoc moi nguoi mot cach cong khai, da so nhung nguoi Gay cung khong muon cong khai hoa ban chat Gay cua minh. Co rat nhieu nguoi Gay muon song mot doi song binh thuong va kim che ban nang Gay cua minh.
3/ Nguoi Viet Nam hay chay theo nhieu trao luu moi neu co dieu kien thuan loi. Chi can "bat den xanh" mot chut la nhieu gioi tre se khuay dong cac phong trao theo cach cua minh. Khong chi rieng linh vuc Gay va con nhieu linh vua khac.
4/ Luat phap Viet nam van con than trong (cautious) trong viec cho phep cac thanh lap cac to chuc, hoi doan mot cach tu do.
Vi nhung ly do neu tren, cung toi muon chia se voi ban mot dieu la viec thanh lap mot Alliance nhu ban de cap can phai co thoi gian nghien cuu that ky tu nhieu khia canh: phia gioi Gay, phia luat phap Viet Nam, phia truyen thong van hoa cua nguoi Viet va nhung van de khac.
Theo toi, neu chung ta chi don gian nghi rang chinh thuc 1 cong dong Gay cho giong nhu o nuoc ngoai thi chua phai luc. Hay dat nhung cau hoi sau:
- Cac bac cha me nguoi Viet Nam se phan ung the nao cho tuong lai con cai cua ho (con trai - "sons") neu nhu nha nuoc hop phap hoa mot cong dong danh cho gioi Gay tai Viet Nam? Ngay ca chinh ban, ban co chap nhan con trai cua ban tro thanh Gay hay khong?
- Khi da co mot hoi doan (alliance hay association) cho gioi Gay, ban co chac rang tat ca nhung nguoi Gay se thoai mai tham gia vao hoi doan do mot cach cong khai khong? Hien nay, nhu ban thay tren trang Web nay, nhieu nguoi tham gia rat tich cuc, nhung khong ai su dung ten tuoi that va dia chi that cua minh ca, tham chi co nguoi khong luu lai mot dau tich gi de nguoi khac co the lien lac. Vay thi doi tuong tham gia vao hoi doan se la ai? Hay chi co nhung ban rat tre "dam lieu, dam lam, dam chiu" moi tham gia vao thoi?
Ai se dam dung ra lam chu tich hoi? Chac chan nguoi co kien thuc rong va dia vi cao, duoc tro.ng vo.ng trong xa hoi, cung nhu co tai lanh dao se khong bao gio dam dung ra dam nhan trach nhiem nay.
- Neu Nha nuoc cho phep "hoi doan" nay duoc thanh lap, thi Nha nuoc co du tru se con bao nhieu "hoi doan" va "to chuc" khac cung xin duoc thanh lap khong? Vay thi dung o phuong dien quan ly xa hoi, se la mot van de khong don gian chut nao.
- Ve mat luat phap, nha nuoc se phai ban hanh luat moi, dong thoi phai doi pho voi nhung bat cap giua chuyen "quan he Gay" va nhung quy dinh ve "Hon nhan gia dinh" da co tu truoc.
Gan day, chung toi co tiep xuc mot ban Gay tu Canada ve Viet nam. Ban ay cung de cap den chuyen lap hoi doan cho gioi Gay, dong thoi ban ay phe phan Nha nuoc Viet nam vi pham nhan quyen doi voi nguoi dan, dan ap tu do tin nguong va tu do luyen ai, cho nen nhung nguoi Gay phai chiu dung kho so trong cai moi truong thieu tu do nay.
Chung toi khong dong y voi quan diem do. Moi thanh vien, moi to chuc, moi linh vuc trong 1 xa hoi deu co nhung moi lien he chat che voi nhau. Con nguoi o day con phai duong dau voi nhieu kho khan khac, the he thanh nien Viet Nam duoc trong doi lam nhieu dieu cap bach hon nua cho dat nuoc. Gays chi la mot van de nho. Mat khac, ban than nhung nguoi Gay van chua chung minh duoc tieng noi va tam quan trong cua minh trong xa hoi, thi theo chung toi chua the doi hoi qua nhieu. Chung toi tin rang Nha nuoc cung dang bat dau co cai nhin tot hon ve gioi Gay. Cu the la quyen sach "Mot the gioi khong co dan ba" da duoc Nha xuat ban Cong an cho ra doi chinh thuc, voi cach nhin kha thoai mai.
Chung toi cung dat rat nhieu hy vong vao dien dan nay, mong no la nhip cau de chuye^?n tieng noi cua gioi Gay Viet Nam den cac co quan chuc nang nha nuoc, de ho co nhung ho tro thiet thuc cho gioi Gay va danh gia gioi Gay mot cach tich cuc hon.
Trong luc nay, chung toi se rat cam kich neu nhu cac ban o nuoc ngoai thuong trao doi thong tin va kinh nghiem cua cac ban voi gioi Gay o Viet Nam, de chung toi hieu ro hon va dinh huong duoc nhung gi mot nguoi Gay co the lam de duoc xa hoi chap nhan.
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