Subject: CUO^.C DO*`I MO^.T "NU*~ TU" (?) |
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Date Posted: 22:22:23 06/03/01 Sun
Hi cac ban,
Tui thay me'-xi'ch nay hay hay, muon chia se cung cac ban. Xin phep tac gia cho pho bien nha !
Ru`i, bat dau... dzo^...
Con trai lon*' len^ bat(' ddau^` dde^? y' dden^' than^ hinh` cua? minh` va` cua? trai khac' , hay mong^. mo* om^ ap^' nam tai` tu*? ddien^. a?nh. Song song voi*' nhung~ cam? giac' thich' thu' ay^' trai GAY con` phai? mang noi^? lo au^ , ba^n khua^n ddoi^' voi*' chinh' MINH` , GIA DINH` , XA~ HOI^. va` TON GIAO'.
1. DDoi^' voi*' chinh' MINH` , con trai GAY cam? thay^' "bat^' binh` thuong`", cam? thay^' " benh^. hoan. ",
luon luon^ bi. xungdot^. trong tam^ tri' ...nao` la` tu*. trach' minh` ...khong^, ta khong^ muon^' la` GAY, ghe^ tom*? qua' , ta khong muon^' la` "con gai'" , la` ped'e', la` " bo'ng" .... Nhung~ noi^? lo au^ ay^' phat' xuat^' tu*` trong tam^ tri' cua? MINH`...nhu* nhung~ day^ xieng^` xich' tu*. troi' MINH` vay^.
2. DDoi^' voi*' GIA DINH` : con trai GAY cam? thay^' bat^' hieu^' neu^' la` GAY bi. kham' pha' ra ;con trai GAY dau^' diem^' cha me. anh chi. em; luon luon^ tim` ca'ch che dday^. , hoac(. noi' doi^' , hoac(. phai? song^' mang mat(. na. doi^' vo*i' gia dinh` va` neu^' co' vo*. thi`lai. len' lut'...Cai' kho^? tam^ ay^' phat' xuat^' tu*` nhung~ lien^ he^. cua? trai GAY va` GIA DINH`...lien^ he^. ma` trai GAY phai? bao? ton^`khi con` song^' cung` duoi' 1 mai' nha` voi*' GIA DINH`.
3.DDoi^' voi*' XA~ HOI^. : trai GAY rat^' la` ngai. ngung` khi cac' ban. thuong` , ban. trong so*? lam` viec^. hay lan`g xom' biet^' dduoc. be^` trai' cua? trai GAY nay`.Lai. phai? song^' mang mat(. na. ;va` che dau^' nhung~ tu* tuong~ va` hanh` ddong^. GAY cua? minh`.Them^ noi^? lo so*. ho. ban` tan' , noi' xau^' ve^` ban? tinh' GAY cua? minh`. Moi^' lo sau^` nay` phat' xuat^' tu*` nhung~ lien^. he^. ma` trai GAY song^' trong moi^ truong` xa~ hoi^.
4. DDoi^' voi*' TON^ GIA'O : trai GAY cang` bi. khung? hoang? tinh than^` khi Giao' Hoi^. Vatican noi' rang(` GAY la` toi^. loi^~ , GAY la` 1 ddieu^` CHua' khong^ chap^' nhan^. ...v....v...Trai GAY lo so*. pham. toi^. va` ddanh` phai? ddi lay^' vo*. . DDoi^' voi*' Phat^. Gia'o con` co' su*. khoan dung trong van^' dde^` GAY ( Buddhist tolerance).
Vay^. moi. lo au^( fear and anxiety) cua? nguoi` GAY phat' xuat^' tu*` nhung~ xung ddot^. (conflicts)trong tam^ tri' cua? nguoi` con trai.
Hieu^? dduoc. nguon^` goc^' va` nguyen^ nhan^ thi` chung'
ta co' the^? diet^. tru*` dduoc. noi^? lo au^ ay^'.
Truoc' het^' 1- DDoi^' voi*' MINH` : chung' ta phai? tu*. giai? thoat' cho chung' ta...nghia~ la` chung' ta coi*? troi' nhung~ xieng^` xich' ma` chung' ta tu*. mang vao` , chung' ta phai? nhan^. ddinh. MINH` la` con NGUOI`TU*. DO ,
MINH` tu*. quyet^' ddinh. cho MINH` , tim` HANH. PHUC" SONG^' cho MINH` ...thi` luc' ay^' moi*' thay^' thoat' tat^' ca~ noi^? lo au^ , khong^ con` ban^ khuan^ nua~ , khong^ con` bi. xung ddot^. nua~ . Mot^. khi chung' ta co' dduoc. tu*. do lua*. chon. con dduong` cua? chung' ta ddi ...chung' ta se~ biet^' phai? lam` gi` ....
Neu^' MINH` nhan^. minh` la` GAY thi` se~ khong^ thay^' buc*. boi^. nua~ ...MINH` se~ biet^' vui vi` tu*. do , vi` dduoc. giai? thoat'( SELF LIBERATED), khong^ con` phai? phan^' ddau^' voi*' CHINH" MINH` nua~.
2- DDoi^' voi' GIA DINH`, XA~ HOI^. va` TON^ GIAO' , con nguoi`GAY khi dda~ duoc. tu*. do , thi` moi. su*. quyet^' ddinh. se~ de^? dang` :
a)- neu^' con trai GAY ay^' muon^' giu*? lien^ he^. voi' GIA DINH`, XA~ HOI^. va` TON GIAO' thi` luc' ay^' se~ biet^' song^' thuan^. hoa` voi*' nhung~ lien^ he^. quan trong. ay^' ...ma` van^? co' 1 hanh. phuc' tot^' ddep.
b)- neu^' trai GAY ay^' muon^' tu*. do hoan` toan`, song^' ddoc^. lap^. va` cat(' ddu*'t moi^' lien^. he^. voi*' GIA DINH`, XA~ HOI^. , TON GIAO'..thi` cung~ de^? cho ho. , va` ho. se~ khong^ phai? chiu.nhung~ xung ddot^. mai~ mai~ .
DDo' la` loi^' song^' cua? nhung~ nguoi` GAY o*? moi^ truong` ma` tat^' ca~ moi. nguoi` coi GAY la` "BINH` THUONG`"....GAY va` KHONG^ GAY cung~ la` nhung~ ddua*' con cua? ME. THIEN NHIEN.(MOTHER NATURE). Tai. sao chung' ta goi. nhung~ nguoi` KHONG GAY la` BINH` THUONG` , con` chung' ta la` GAY lai. la` BAT^' BINH` THUONG` a` ? ( GAY IS ABNORMAL ?)..KHi nao` chung' ta nhan^. thuc*' dduoc. chung' ta la` BINH` THUONG` ...chung' ta la` NGUOI` TU*. DO.
than ai'
hoa`
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