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Date Posted: 18:25:00 03/12/02 Tue
Author: Dark Star
Subject: Poor Goktimus...Actually I do feel bad for you. :(
In reply to: Goktimus Prime 's message, "Well this just keeps getting better and better" on 12:06:34 03/12/02 Tue

>>Posted by GP:Well, it's been just over a month since my oh-so-charming (re: cheating) gf left for Japan and left me in the lurch to decide the fate of our relationship together.<<

(Holds mouth so that she doesn't start saying nasty things about how lousy that girl seems.) Oh that just sucks! Really that is the worst thing a person can do. Nice thing to do, run away, real mature on her part. *rolls eyes* Sounds like she's got a few screws loose.

>>She allegedly returned on Sunday, which is when we spoke.<<

allegedly? Forgive me, but does that mean that she was in town before Sunday, or that you just believe that she was? IE. She said, "Oh I just got in town on Sunday," that sort of thing?

>>Here's some points she established during the conversation:

1. She no longer loves me anymore because she can't trust me after I hacked into her Email account. No mention about my trust in her or anything...<<

Okay, while Hacking into someone's e-mail isn't exactly the smartest thing to do...(Meaning there could be use for lawsuits and stuff, but we won't get into that)...I can understand why you would want to do that. She can't trust you...and she's the one who cheated? How Ironic. ;)

>>2. Our relationship breakdown is completely and utterly my fault, because I had gathered evidence of her infidelity.<<

Oh I see, sooooo it's okay for her to cheat, but not okay for you to find out and show her that you knew she was cheating. Got it. ;)Sounds like she likes to have her cake and eat it too, so to speak.

>>To use the 'skeleton in the closet' analogy, she's basically blaming me because I broke into her closet and found her skeleton. 'scuse me, but I was kinda getting annoyed by the stench.<<

LoL. Skeletons stink? This is the first time I've heard of that...maybe she had a rotting corps instead. Really she sounds like an imature person who got caught and doesn't want to take the blame.

>>Needless to say that I have now stooped into an even lower depth of depression and utter misery now.<<

Whoa, GP, don't. This girl sounds like she really wasn't worth it. If she's so callous and mean to blame you for her mistakes then she definately wasn't worth your time and energy. Please don't think all girls are like this snake in the grass. Most of us are pretty cool. Have you talked to friends of her's to see if she's done this before? Could be she's got a problem with handling commitment? It sounds like she likes to play around to me.




>>Life just utterly sucks atm.<<

True, but you still have this little group around. :) Believe me I understand what your going through. Talk to people, it will help. And best thing to do, get rid of her phone number and don't talk to her. She really sounds like a pompus arse(sorry for the language).

DS, trying to help. :)

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  • Must...resist...urge...to...hurl... -- Perceptor II, 22:32:24 03/12/02 Tue
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