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Date Posted: 13:18:54 01/13/02 Sun
Author: Sandy
Author Host/IP: 216.104.140.59
Subject: Re: Hey Guys !
In reply to: Dave 's message, "Hey Guys !" on 03:46:14 01/12/02 Sat

Hey Dave,

I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going well in your new relationship. I was hoping that you would find what you're looking for.

One thing I do want to point out is that if you're anything like me...and I think that in some ways you are...you let things build up until you are about ready to explode, until you feel like you can't take any more and desperately want a solution. Then maybe you jump into something that you wouldn't have ordinarily but you do now because you feel like something has to change...you're just grasping at anything..any chance for happiness. The problem is that after you've gotten to that point, you aren't thinking clearly enough to know what would make you happy... I'm not sure you can relate to what I've said. Maybe this isn't the way you are..but I know I've been there in the past and it wasn't a pleasant experience and only added more emotional pain to what I was feeling. I guess the trick is trying to do what Mikki and Lori pointed out, getting things figured out and straightened out in our lives before getting involved in anything else. I know that's the hardest thing to do.

I jumped into a rebound marriage after my jerk of an ex cheated and tried his best to wreck me emotionally. What a big mistake that was!!! Jim is a nice guy and we are still friends, but that's all it could ever be and if I hadn't been so hurt emotionally, I would have realized that. Luckily I got out of that situation, kept the friendship and finally found the person I was looking for. I hope you find that too Davey. You deserve it :)

Love,
Sandy

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  • Re: Hey Guys ! -- gem, 13:57:53 01/13/02 Sun
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