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Date Posted: 19:45:19 04/19/00 Wed
Author: Amy
Subject: Done

Ok, before anyone else jumps on me Im letting you know this is my last post in the forum, its gotten way out of hand and I tried to make a truce here.
Before I go though, I want you all to know MY SIDE of things before being so quick to jump on me too (in which I know it will happen). Yes, its true, I messaged Beth in chat this evening and that was after I had sent her the following email...I had asked her if she got my email in chat and the conversation wasnt nice. So please, before you all get over me, let me have the chance to tell my side.....

Beth,
First of all, Im sure Im the last person you are expecting an email from so I will be sure this is short and to the point.
This email isnt about apologizing or anything else of the sort, so you can keep reading this if you have made it to this point in the email.
I have one simple request and some of it is based on the terrible things that are currently being said in the MLB Forum, some of it is based on the post that Lucy had said about enemies just not talking at all, some of it is
based on my own children and how we BOTH are trying to instill in their minds that we should always say nice things and try to make them better than we are, to correct them of our own faults. I know we both have regrets on to
what we have said to each other in the past but I think we can both agree that enough is enough already.
Its apparent that we bump heads quite a bit and I dont think that is something that is ever going to change. Personally, I really feel we are both a lot alike and that is a cause for majority of our fights and you must admit, we both hate to be wrong and I think that is because in both of our marriages, each of our husbands have tried to make us out to brainless idiots when in fact it is just the opposite.
Im calling a truce Beth, not that I am admitting total and complete fault because it takes 2 to fight, you know that as well as I do, but after being away from the MLB Forum for a few days to come back and see some of
the things written, not just about me or yourself, but other people, it hurts and I think you can admit that also.
Im not asking you to be nice to me if we both are in chat together but I think we should both keep our not so nice comments to ourselves and keep whatever things need to be said to ourselves. What do you say? We both have
mutual friends in which I feel we are causing them to chose between our friendships and I dont think that is fair to any of them, again, I think you will agree.
If this isnt possible to do, please let me know and what I can do is not come to chat if I see you there, not that I come there all that often. I havent been back to MLB since our last 'squabble' and the reason for that is
the above, where we had mutual friends in there whom I do know care for the both of us and its not only fair to them but its not fair for us to take every cheap shot at each other to make that other person hurt.
Im not stupid and neither are you and some of the people that have expressed their comments to our arguments are right, we BOTH need to grow up and let it go.
Im willing to do this if you can agree, let me know....Amy

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Re: Done -- weas, 19:50:01 04/19/00 Wed