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Date Posted: 09:22:29 03/22/03 Sat
Author: 主僕
Subject: 水泡爆破...是一件很痛苦的事

梁實秋說過 :

悲觀不是消極. 所以自殺的不是悲觀, 悲觀主義者反對自殺. 悲觀是從壞的一方面來觀察一切事物, 從壞的一方面著眼的意思. 悲觀主義者無時不料想事物的惡化,唯其如此, 所以他最積極的生活, 換言之, 最不為虛幻的希望所誤入歧途, 最努力的設法來對付這醜惡的現實. ......
從壞處著想, 大慨可以十猜十中百猜百中; 從好處著想, 往往一次希望十次失望. 所以樂觀者天真可愛, 而禁不住現實的接觸, 一接觸就水泡一般的破滅. 悲觀者似乎未免自苦, 而在現實中卻能安身立命. 所以自殺者是樂觀的人, 幸福者倒是悲觀的人.

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[> Re: 係真唔係呀﹖ -- 賤 El, 22:58:59 03/23/03 Sun

謬論與真理
只是一線之差

哈﹗
文字真厲害﹗﹗
小女子佩服佩服﹗


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[> Re: 我會咁睇 -- 阿寬, 00:57:49 03/24/03 Mon

我只認同悲觀與消極並無直接關係
但也不一定等如積極
樂觀者亦然
「自殺者是樂觀的人...幸福者倒是悲觀的人」
呢個講法我更加唔認同
樂觀的人會覺得世界上美好的東西太多了
那會去死？
反之悲觀的人如何積極也因悲觀而令世界變得黑暗
生存還有何意義？
樂觀者生處憂患仍會自得其樂...悲觀者生處優越仍自怨自憐
所以「自殺者是悲觀的人...幸福者倒是樂觀的人」的說法才正確


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[> [> Re: 我會咁睇 -- 主僕, 06:20:24 03/24/03 Mon

有些人
為自己的未來為自己不能知道的事想很多可能性
只不過悲觀的人會多向壞處想
結果
攪到自己成日都唔開心


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[> [> [> Re: 新領會 -- 賤 El, 07:11:21 03/24/03 Mon

以悲觀的眼光去理解樂觀之人的世界
肯定會很悲觀
相反亦然


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