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Date Posted: 17:16:50 05/04/02 Sat
Author: Karren
Author Host/IP: HubX-mcr-24-95-111-59.midsouth.rr.com / 24.95.111.59
Subject: Sick of judgemental family member
Toosh, I am so glad that you said I could vent here...cause I have a major dilemna. I am riba-raging right now with my mother who seems to think that it is in her power to be judgemental with me about something that happened 30 years ago, how I caught this dragon. Now 30 years later when I need her emotional support (never asking for financial) and spiritual support, she won't even visit, because she seems to think she is going to catch this God-awful disease just by drinking from the same glass; as if tx isn't hard enough. She also wants my docs phone number and feels it is within her right and power to second guess everything I tell her. She will e-mail my other half asking how I really am doing after she has talked to me on the phone. She will also tell me that I shouuld be feeling better now that I am into my 3rd month of tx, even though I have developed anemia and copd, she will also ask her family practitioner about my tx even though I have explained it to her. In essence she is either in denial or just does not believe me or TRUST ME!!!! Well just let me call the WAAAAAAAAAAAMBULANCE, I feel she should address her own alcohol and substance abuse issues from up to 1 year ago and quit second guessing me. Feeling like Rosannaannnadanna from Saturday Night Live and looking like Linda Blair possessed, maybe I should just say "Never Mind" and get on with it.
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Karren -- Donna, 19:02:34 05/04/02 Sat (pawilk-apx1-121-141.du.uplink.net/209.173.121.142)
i can so much relate to how you feel my family is the same way. they are getting better i wish the best 4 you and thanks for helping me with my kittys death ithats why i love animals more then people they wont hurt us!!
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Re: Karren -- Karren, 19:17:05 05/04/02 Sat (HubX-mcr-24-95-111-59.midsouth.rr.com/24.95.111.59)
(((Donna)))) Thanks! You are so right, animals give unconditional love, maybe(lol) my attitude sucks right now but I can't help but wonder why I am feeding into this, usually don't, tx maybe? or Riba-Raging more like it....but so what we are all only human and when I bring up the fact that wanting just love and emotional support is all we want, she looks for reasons not to...don't need this, nobody does....so thank you so much for your support, this is truly agonizing, have always been there for her when she was incapable of raising my 3 brothers I did, don't need to wonder about that right now. Did you go to RainbowBridge.com? Light a candle for Lucky on Monday maybe? Seems like you are doing alot better than yesterday. Tell you what, if it weren't for my fur-angels, fur-devils or fur-babies (whatever you want to call them); don't think I could handle this as well, right now have one on my lap while typing and wouldn't you know my other-half named her Riba after the poison we take (LOL), she is a terror. Going to get of puter and eat something then try to nap for about an hour, haven't slept well in last 2 days, will have to break down and take a hydrocodone for migraine and fibromyalgia that has not been aleviated by celexa. Well check back in a couple of hours. If you want,will post something for Lucky at the Rainbowbridge site for you, just let me know.
Thanks again.
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Re: Karren -- Donna, 20:11:10 05/04/02 Sat (pawilk-apx1-121-141.du.uplink.net/209.173.121.142)
i put lucky on for monday night boy i sure miss my little man!!Thank you so much
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RANT ON!!!! -- toosh, 21:01:04 05/04/02 Sat (dhcp024-209-033-060.neo.rr.com/24.209.33.60)
Linda Blair ain't got nuthin on you, lol!
(((Karren)))))....have you seen the letter on our main website, "To Whom It May Concern"? It might be a perfect thing to print out and give to your mother. There is one thing I have learned over the years about my folks....they are NOT going to change. My father and I have had some periods where we have gotten along like oil and water....I had to learn to not let it drag me down. He's 80 now with Alzheimers and STILL can push my buttons like nobody else can! Honey...you come here ANYTIME and rant...I also have a board that is made just for that, lol...come there and you can even use whatever language you want to do it, har! (a href=http://www.the-burning-question.com/cgi/boardpower/forum.cgi?forum=46>COME VENT!!
Take good care...and TRY (easy for me to say)...to not let it all get to ya! smooooch.....Carol
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ooooops.....lemme try that again! -- toosh, 21:03:49 05/04/02 Sat (dhcp024-209-033-060.neo.rr.com/24.209.33.60)
Even us internet maven's screw up now and again, lol! Here's the venting link again:
CLICK HERE TO VENT!
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Re: ooooops.....lemme try that again! -- karren, 02:47:48 05/05/02 Sun (HubX-mcr-24-95-111-59.midsouth.rr.com/24.95.111.59)
Toosh, I must be doing something wrong or it's the ye olde brain fog because I am trying to rant on in your site and I can't post there....haven't been kicked off yet, I'll try again.
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Sweetie......did you register? -- toosh, 19:38:49 05/05/02 Sun (dhcp024-209-033-060.neo.rr.com/24.209.33.60)
You have to register one time and have a password sent to you.....then you don't have to worry about it again. Keeps the riff raff out, doncha know, lol!!
Drop me a line if you continue having problems! I'll be looking for ya! smoooooch....Carol carol@hepcassoc.org
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Re: Sweetie......did you register? -- Karren, 20:26:43 05/05/02 Sun (HubX-mcr-24-95-111-59.midsouth.rr.com/24.95.111.59)
Yep, McTooshchuck, I did it is now Chemocat and I tried Riba McRavinbich on the hockey name it came up Guy McMcRavinbichdyk in canadian ROFLMAO on that one (two Mc's also).
Karren
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Re: Sweetie......did you register? -- Karren, 00:57:38 05/06/02 Mon (HubX-mcr-24-95-111-59.midsouth.rr.com/24.95.111.59)
It finally worked Toosh, went to my e-mail and then went back to Enema Lounge, tried it and worked. YEEEEHAW!
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