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Date Posted: 14:25:37 08/23/00 Wed
Author: Robin
Subject: Re: Robin
In reply to: steve 's message, "Re: Robin" on 13:43:58 08/23/00 Wed

> No, I agree, and bet you probably deserve child
> support...and that your kids deserve it more...I am
> just saying it's a case by case basis...
>
> ...look at it this way, a man has absolutely no say in
> anything regarding the birth of a child, if the woman
> wants an abortion, he cannot stop her, if the child
> was a mistake(a term or way of thinking I do not
> believe in, but I say freedom from the tyranny of
> morals, so I would be a hypocrite if I tried to rain
> over some one who thinks that way)the man cannot force
> the woman to have an abortion...thus, a woman can go
> get pregnant that wants a kid, but doesn't want a
> husband, then rake a guy of the coals to support her
> little dream...this is just one of many instances
> where I think caution and case by case situations
> occur...and if you think this doesn't happen...dream
> on because it is quiet frequent...
>
> ...next, lets look at the case of my brother...he
> makes more money a year then his ex wife, and she gave
> him no fight over custody, his ex wife has serious
> mental issues, and while she is single with no
> responsiblities, and makes abou 12-13 dollars an hour,
> she is bairly responsible enough to take care of
> herself...she is clinically depresive, and loves her
> son, but does not see him for month on end at a time
> because she has problems dealing...in NY state, where
> they live, under law he can force her to pay child
> support...now he had no inclination of doing this, but
> his new wife hates her, and treates my nephew like
> shit while she props her kid up and gives him the
> world...she is behind this whole web trying to stick
> her vindictive fangs into this woman and suck what she
> can out of her...I want to beat her fucking ass...I
> wish she was a guy...all she wants is more money for
> her own ends, she allready sucks my brothers money
> away to pay for the house in her name, the car in her
> name, and all her credit card debt...she sits around
> and does nothing, while my brother works some 55 hours
> a week and then comes home and cooks dinner and washes
> the dishes...it's just a fucked situation, and they
> have no buisness collecting anything from that
> woman...If he sues her, I will never talk to his ass
> again.


I don't care about your brother or you sister in law,
I do but I don't they are grow ups "capable" of making
their own choices and decisions.

I care about their kid/kids... That's the thing, we hear
their stories without considering the kids stories.

Lets listen, lets care ... and I would never presume to
believe they don't intertwine...

Strangly enough I care about both of them, I just see
them all as kidsl...



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