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Date Posted: 12:26:01 01/02/02 Wed
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In reply to: Kenny 's message, "Peraturan Pacaran ?" on 23:28:03 10/15/01 Mon

Soal peraturan dalam pacaran, buat gua antara ya dan tidak. Ya karena memang harus disadari soal pacaran banyak kali adalah alat iblis yg paling efektif utk bikin ribut di gereja, persekutuan mahasiswa, etc. Tidak karena menurut gua Tuhan kita itu Tuhan yg kreatip banget, jadi jalanNya kagak bisa dikotakin dengan peraturan-peraturan manusia. Tapi gua sendiri sih prefer utk "tidak" TAPI harus ada suatu komunitas keluarga Allah yg kuat misalnya dalam cell group, KTB, dsb, maksud gua disini adalah gua percaya kalo teman-teman seiman yg Tuhan kasih diatara kita itu dikasih Tuhan bukan tanpa ada tujuan apa-apa tapi utk jadi semacam "polisi". Karena gua percaya kalo kita build relationship itu kita punya tanggung jawab nggak cuman ke doi doang tapi Tuhan, keluarga dan sekitar kita. Dan menurut gua modal yg dasar utk suatu pacaran adalah kedewasaan iman dan salah satu karakteristik kedewasaan iman adalah suatu karakter yg dengar-dengaran. Jadi kalo memang ada yg nggak benar sebagai brother in CHRIST kita harus tegur bro kita itu, dan kalo dia dewasa, dia pasti mau dengar (tentunya kita tegur dia juga dengan cara yg biblical).

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