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Subject: Relationship Limbo Author: Head Waters [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 00:12:27 08/23/07 Thu Hi Guys, I have entangled myself in a situation where I can't get out so please you guys provide me some advice. I am a single man (bachelor) and am not actually married but I got myself into a relationship that I never intended to have at the first place. I was teaching at a leading institution in PNG with classes with up to 300+- students. There was this individual student that really wanted a piece of me. She was married to a polygamist (son of a prominent Enga) and had a kid. I told her that it would be hard because she was married and had a kid. She told me that she hated her husband and frequented my office on average 3 times a day. I also pointed out to her that I am not going to be used as her scapegoat to get even with her husband. This discussions went on for like 8 months, every time she tried to get closer to me I avoided her. I also had a open door policy to my office because I didn't want her to capitalise on that opportunity. Her parents live in the same street and one night she came with my 2 cousins (females) to my house. My cousins never knew that this married woman had a crush on me. I had many people, (relatives) in my house...up to 14 and about 11 of them were all females. Because I have a lot of respect for my female relatives, I had to sleep on the couch every night because all the rooms were filled by the girls. Sometimes I spend the nights at my office. Now during this particular night at about 1am this desperado came out of the room she was sleeping with all my cousins and sisters and launched herself at me. What was I to do?...shout, no...I was not going to shout becasue that would be shameful for me in the eyes of my sisters and cousins. I begged her to go but she insisted that nothing I do will change her mind. I was left with no choice but the obvious. 2 days later her husband send her to the ICU....she recovered after 2 weeks and divorced her husband, and now she is telling everyone that I am her man. This has significantly tainted my intergrity among my friends, peers and potential young girls. I am not her man and I don't want to be....I never liked her and will never but she knows alot about the law and I am scared. I am in a mess all because of a one night stand with a seductive adultress. Please give me some tips. Many thanks [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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Subject Author Date Re: Relationship Limbo 1aku 02:58:52 08/24/07 Fri Re: Relationship Limbo legal eagle (Nothing there) 07:16:28 09/03/07 Mon