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Subject: Re: 請恕我多嘴


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Date Posted: 02:35:54 09/09/02 Mon
In reply to: 路人甲 's message, "請怒我多嘴" on 23:50:35 09/08/02 Sun

1.你口口聲聲話我針對葛生是因為詩觀的問題,借問聲我的
留言如何提到了我的詩觀?睇落冇喎,我只係話對葛的詩冇
興趣;既然我冇講過我覺得詩應該係點點點,你又點可以話
我「似乎把自己的詩觀看成唯一的詩觀」?換個例子,假設
我最鍾意食西瓜,但見到木瓜就想嘔,我話「我對木瓜冇興
趣」,似乎推唔出「我認為(淨係)西瓜先係最好食」卦?

2.所以,由始至終我針對葛既,都唔係詩唔詩觀既問題,你
可以check番我既留言,我係話佢自我中心,得唔到人地注視
就大呼「點解冇人批評架」,而且後來貼出既留言顯示,佢
並唔係對自己的情形唔了解,亦唔係一d評語都得唔到;咁,
佢究竟貼咁大堆人地對自己既意見上黎做乜呢?又何故仲咁想
人地俾意見佢呢?呢d同佢詩寫成點,係冇直接關係既。
呢個我對佢(做人)既姿態既反應,請你不要拉埋詩落水。
如果佢個人低調d謙厚d沉著d,即使佢既詩依然寫成咁,我又何
至於打咁大段野黎丙佢呢。

3.你可以話我應該針對佢既詩而唔係佢個人作評論,但係呢d係我
對佢在胡扯小區的行徑的不滿,又冇理由扯埋詩落水。
喂,呢d度都有好多人貼詩而且冇人理架,大家各安天命,
就係因為,我地應該好明白,別人並無任何必然理由對自己
感興趣。即使鍾意你首詩,亦未必有時間或者有衝動打咩評
語。(何況冇興趣既,就當然更加唔評啦——你可以話「冇
興趣都可以評架!」係可以評,但係,都可以唔評卦?)

你講到自己咁熱誠,之前o係呢度你係咪有出過聲評咩詩?
如果唔係,可唔可以問下自己點解?咁樣係咪可以更加體諒
別人?

4.我都有諗過葛說「請上詩生活看我和大陸詩人談詩」和
宣傳私人網頁有何分別,後來我都係覺得有分別。可能係
我敏感,我覺得咁係挾大陸詩人以自重。如果佢係話「我
在詩生活上開了一個專欄,請來看看。」反而冇呢種感
覺。所以在這一點上,我係以個人角度出發去發表意見既。固
然可能敏感偏激啦。你話「對方有權利貼詩,你有權不看」,
恐怕有d偏袒,人地問「做乜冇人評架?」喎。

5.仲有一樣野,最好唔好用大帽子壓人好喎。鬧葛鴻雲既係我
一個,你咁樣講,好似要成個吐露詩社俾幫我「咩」飛喎。照
你咁講,咁係咪我為左不壞吐露詩社既名譽,就唔可以丙我忍
無可忍既人?咁樣好鬼建制喎。
你如果有心黎交換意見,你咪講你意見囉,但睇落,你又好似
冇乜講過野喎,我覺得你對我、吐露、葛同你自己,似乎唔同
standard喎。仲有,「難怪聽閒中大有喜好新詩的朋友,也不
加入吐露」呢d說話太壓人勒,我也聽聞過浸會有喜歡新詩的
朋友不加入大學詩社、科大有喜好新詩的同學不加入清水
灣詩社、教育學院有喜好新詩的同學不加入薪傳文社、香港有
喜好新詩的人不加入任何詩社或文社,我覺得冇任何唔妥,
甚至係應該既。合則來,不合則去。大家咁大個人,understood架啦係嘛。
你咁講令人覺得冇d惡意挑釁,但係睇落你應該只係思維
稍為傳統,咁就算啦。你放心,我唔算太容易被得罪,你
自便,想點就點。

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