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Subject: 淡然處之可也


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一個更老的人
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Date Posted: 19:20:03 05/14/02 Tue
In reply to: 一時感觸 's message, "Re: 我沒有的可愛" on 11:11:46 05/14/02 Tue

我也參加過詩社,辦過活動,因此對大家的感慨都明白,也有同感。
不過我回想起來,或者是寫詩的人都比較「性情中人」,因此有任何事情發生,反應可能會有點過火。自己受了委曲,受了傷害,都因此會留下很深的傷痕。但是再想一想,人到底是人,每個人都有自己的看法和個性,很難要求別人能毫無過失,同樣的,自己也未必是毫無過失的,也未必是對別人完全公平的。
其實就算有什麼事發生,不要把它看得那麼大件事,對自己,對團體的未來都有好處的。
我知道說來容易,做起來未必容易,特別是年輕人。但是至少可以嘗試一下,當有這些事發生時,可以提醒自己:「這些只不過是小事而已。」「原諒別人,每個人都不是完美的,而我自己也不是完美的。」

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