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Date Posted: 02:11:50 05/14/01 Mon
Author: Sallerina
Author Host/IP: spare1.Hull-LEA.gov.uk / 195.44.57.243
Subject: Re: A lecture from me (it's not the first and it certainly won't be the last)
In reply to: Hannah 's message, "Re: A lecture from me (it's not the first and it certainly won't be the last)" on 06:16:14 05/12/01 Sat

Aimee, sometimes keeping out of someones way, is the only way you can be sure you are totally over them/nothing is going to happen between you.
It's only natural to think back to past loves/sexual incounters/whatever when you are feeling all lonely and abandoned, but it really isn't the right thing to do.

I know you say you can have friends that you don't want to pounce on, and Dave could become one of them, but lets face it, if all your 'friends' did was use you, they wouldn't actually be your friends.

I know how you feel, I pined over Mark for an eternity (maybe not, but I know that's what it feels like!!) I don't hate him or wish him any ill feeling (well, most of the time!) I know he's not a totally bad person, but it wasn't meant to be for us, it didn't work out, he treat me like shit and therefore will have to face the consequences. I will say 'hi' if I see him in the street, email him occasionally or whatever, but meeting up with him for a bite to eat is not and sould not be on the agenda.

Don't worry about it, reply to his emails or whatever.

And remember that even if you know what will happen with you and Dave, it doesn't make it right; it actually makes it worse if you don't even have ignorance as an excuse.

Love you!!!

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