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Date Posted: 01:05:30 08/06/06 Sun
Author: ashely (=[)
Author Host/IP: ool-45722fc7.dyn.optonline.net / 69.114.47.199
Subject: Re: signs of a cheating boyfriend?

this is a long one...PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

ive ben going out wit my boyfriend for one year and 4 months. he cheated on me within the first week we went out.he told me it was one grl that he didnt no and of course blamed it on the alcohol, cryed, and apologised 2 get me bak. months later i had seen one of the grls he cheated on me with, with out noin it was her (yes he cheated on me twice in 1 night). he felt bad so he told me that she was one, i have never ben able 2 trust him again and feel like a complete asshole 4 believing him (not even half way there yet). soo..then in june i find out he has anouther myspace. (internet friend thing) and he said that he just uses it 2 check my myspace and look at other peoples profiles. fine w.e i let it go..there were no messages 2 other people, and he had 0 friends on it. then about 2 or 3 days ago im at his house and i go 2 go on my aim screen name and there is this random screen name in the log in. i asked him whos it was and he said his. he never told me about this screen name, he said he has had it since 10th grade (he is 4 yrs older then me, im 16 and hes 20, when i was in 6th grade there was no such thing as aim...) and uses it 2 see who is online and wut there away messages say w/out people bothering him. iam on his buddylist and he never once imed me while he was on it. not sayin he has 2 randomly be like "oh by the way i have this other screen name" but 2 at least i.m me on it. so, i creatd a screen name of my own. im not sure he nos i have it but he deffinetly does not no wut the screen name is. so i put his "secret" screen name on my buddylist, and i have seen him go on it plenty of times, and for a while 2. but 2night i was on my regular screen name, aroun 1:45am and he calls me telling me hes goin 2 sleep. now he sounds al groggy and tired, and then all of a sudden i see him sign on 2 his "secret" screen name and i go, ohhh so ur goin 2 sleep now, he now seems wide awakw (after relizeing that i was online) and said yeah ina little while, i asked him y he was on so late 2 check "away messages" n he got all deffensive and signed off imideatly. this little episode has possesed me 2 do this......wait theres moreee...
my cuzzin lives by him and works a late shift,and recently i have talked 2 my cuzzin on the phone he said that he passes my boyfriends house almost every mornin at 9am..and that my boyfriends car is never there...that was a shock...soo i didnt say anything 2 my boyfriend, i decided i was goin 2 go by his house and see if it was true a couple of mornings..but i cudnt be that crazy...so i just asked him..and wen i did of course he denied it but boyyy did his face light up...soooo..he goes 2 the gym 4 an hour and a half every day..he used 2 call me at a quarter 2 11:00am and tell me he was leavin, now he doesnt even call n say good morning, and i dont hear from him until 3:00pm...also our 16 months was the 1st of this month and usually hes all cute no matter wutt, but this time he didnt even actknowledge it....

PLEASEEEEE!!! give me some kind of advice, i love this boy with all my heart...weve ben threw soo much 2gether, and ino if i say somethin 2 him he will get mad wether im right or wrong..i just need 2 no..is he lieing???

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