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Date Posted: 15:20:33 09/04/05 Sun
Author: Jenny
Author Host/IP: cache-mtc-ac09.proxy.aol.com / 64.12.116.138
Subject: Out of town boyfriend

I met a man over a year ago who lives out of town. I met him on an internet dating site. He lives three hours away from me so we only get to see each other a couple times a month on the weekend. I travel to where he lives and spend weekends with him. He is divorced but we can never go to his home and he has never introduced me to any of his friends. I have met his daughter briefly and his co-workers but it's been over a year and he talks about his friends but will not take me around them or to his home. I have asked him numerous times why we can't ever stay at his house and he says it's because he is embarrassed of his home and when I ask him why we don't go around his friends he says because when he is with me he wants to spend all his time with me. Something seems amiss here and my gut tells me there is something going on. I confronted him about it yet again and he gives me the same excused. I'm confused because he did introduce me to his adult daughter and a few of the men that work for his company but it was only for a few minutes. He has given me his home number and I have called there but never get an answer. I know it's his home number because I verified it online but some of the pieces do not fit together here. I know his ex-wife/wife (he says they are divorce) I know she does not live with him but to me it feels like there is something he isn't telling me. We talk all the time at night when he is at home and that sometimes makes me think he is telling me the truth but I still feel something is up. Should I go with my gut instinct here because I truly feel something is wrong here or am I over-reacting or crazy. I am getting out of a 17 year marriage myself and my husband cheated on me so I am very very weary of this. I have serious trust issues and maybe that's why I think something is going on here but it just seems that his man is not being completly truthful with me. What do you think? I need some advice.

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