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Date Posted: 10:37:24 08/22/14 Fri
Author: Couch Man GG, PhD.
Author Host/IP: 206.212.164.12
Subject: Have some
In reply to: PingonE 's message, "I'm no tough guy" on 09:14:28 08/22/14 Fri

>>>she put me thru as a kid. He was my dad's las
>>>surviving brother. He constantly borrowed money from
>>>my dad when he was alive, and never paid it back.
>She,
>>>the wife, constantly berated me as a child coz my
>>>grades were not as good as my cousin's. For many
>>>years, a hated that whole fucking family. About 20
>>>years ago, I saw my cousin after 25 years of not
>>>having seen him. Resentments disappeared after I
>>>realized it had not been his fault that his parents
>>>were such pricks. He understood my resentment and
>>>accepted it with grace. Ever since, he and I have had
>>>a great relationship even though I refused to have
>any
>>>contact with his parents. He was ok with that.
>>>
>>>Yesterday, I got news that that prick of an uncle
>>>passed away yesterday morning. Upon hearing the news,
>>>I sadly and bitterly wept for a long time. Why is
>>that?
>>
>>You feel for the guy who lost HIS dad, even though you
>>hated the dad. Empathy for another? If you don't
>>keep that quiet, we could stop regarding you as a
>>tough guy.
>
>When it comes to feelings. I've been accused of
>wearing my heart on my sleeve. ... I think it was
>because of the end of the whole generation of brothers
>and sister, also facing the fact that I am no spring
>chicken, a feeling of loneliness, and missing both my
>parents.

Find a younger lady in the 30's who wants to have your babies. They are out there.

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