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Date Posted: 14:17:40 08/15/04 Sun
Author: 大L
Subject: 繁体版

如果說要注意交朋友的話，如果說朋友可主動的去交的話，根據人性分析的知識，唯一最好的方式就是為對方著想，如彼此都為對方著想，實際上是等於為自己著想，但如此結果與自己著想是不同的，為對方著想的結果是不斷增加向心力，可長久維持感情，反之，如不為對方著想，只是為自己打算，甚至只想從對方佔到好處，這樣就會增長離心力，不論外表相處的情形如何，友情總不會長久保持。這不是唱高調的說法，實則人性如此，固然彼此皆為對方著想的情形不多見，但不妨冷眼看看，彼此都為自己打算，又有多少能維持友情的。

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