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Date Posted: 20:24:13 06/27/00 Tue
Author: VICKI
Subject: Re: Meeting
In reply to: Barb 's message, "Meeting" on 08:49:45 06/27/00 Tue

GIRL, I WISH I HAD READ YOUR POSTING BEFORE THE MEETING. I COULDN'T BELIEVE HOW THIN YOU HAVE GOTTEN. I THOUGHT THAT SINCE COURT WAS SOMEWHAT FAVORABLE THAT YOU MIGHT BE DOING BETTER. I AM SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT MICHELE. I CAN'T EVEN IMAGINE GOING THRU ALL YOU HAVE TO GO THRU EVERYDAY. PLEASE KNOW YOU ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS BECAUSE LORD KNOWS I DON'T KNOW ANYTHING TO SAY OR DO TO MAKE THINGS EASIER ON YOU. IF THERE IS EVER ANYTHING I CAN DO, PLEASE LET ME KNOW (AND THAT IS NOT JUST THE CO-DEPENDANT IN ME SPEAKING!) HA!

I HAVE A QUESTION FOR YOU. HOW DO YOU BALANCE "TOUGH LOVE" WITH MERCY? IT SEEMS LIKE EVERTHING I HEAR RIGHT NOW IS CONTRADICTORY. GROUP WANTS ME TO BE TOUGH, WATCH AND SEE TYPE STUFF. WHEN I TALK TO GREG, HE TEACHES I SHOULD ERR ON THE SIDE OF MERCY...TO GIVE TOO MUCH RATHER THAN NOT ENOUGH, TO LOVE TOO MUCH RATHER THAN TOO LITTLE, ETC. WHERE IS THE BALANCE IN ALL THAT?

ALSO, HOW DO YOU HANDLE GETTING A LITTLE HOPE BUT PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM THE HURT THAT USUALLY FOLLOWS?

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