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Subject: I will break the silence

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Husband of (not) Susan

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Date Posted: Saturday, June 07, 2025, 01:57: pm

Cat's got her tongue. She is not interested in discussing with you all how things are going with stool withholding because she is one of the guiltiest parties in that regard. I honestly thought it was just a peculiar thing in her head about not being able to go without being home alone in her own bathroom until our daughter got backed up and soiling herself and we were told it is a real thing to withhold stool and stretch out the colon. So the Sunday enemas are not liked by all three. (not) Susan has no stool to pass out of her rectum until Wednesday after her Sunday enema. That is how stretched out and backed up she gets. With the daily fiber they all take every morning our two kids are able to have a stool to pass on Tuesday evening. And they all three then can usually stool each evening with only occasionally needing their help from the bulb syringe. (not) Susan needs the suppository usually on Wednesday evening but then not again until her Sunday evening. AV we did not get the toilet chair. The two gals share the toilet for their enemas and it works out okay for the most part. I'll keep you all updated since she won't. Any questions? No more fighting for clean out enemas but a lot of griping and fusing.

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[> Subject: Re: I will break the silence

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AV
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 07, 2025, 11:07: pm

Husband of Susan,
Thank you for the update.
Sorry this is happening to your family.
It’s a healing journey.
Now at least you know and also know what
needs to be done.
Please let Susan know we are thinking about
her and her family. She is not alone.
Continue to take care of the kids as well so
in the longevity of this journey they can find
healing in their colon.
Take care.

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Husband
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Date Posted: Saturday, June 21, 2025, 08:59: am

Wife and kids headed out for breakfast and then some birthday shopping so I have a little time to give you some background on my wife's issues with using the toilet.
After we had been married for about six months I noticed that she often had few or none underwear in the clothes hamper for washing. Thought maybe she was just shy about her underwear and wash secretly washing them herself.
But I was also becoming aware that she was having issues with bowel movements, very secretive about them.
Then when she was starting labor with our son our Doula gave her two bottles of the Fleet disposable enemas together. She started hyperventilating and freaked out big time about her enema. However Doula checked her returns and said she was so badly impacted with stool that she definitely needed that enema.
Her sister tells me now that she has been destroying her underwear for ever. Their mom would get so mad for having to replace underwear that came up missing because she would just throw them away.
Sister has a daughter that has needed a weekly enema since she was a toddler because she has a static colon that just doesn't move things along well. She is also on Metamucil and it helps but she gets cleaned out weekly.
So wife is on weekly enema now. I give all enemas now. Kids have adjusted pretty well, some whimpering and complaining.

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Author: AV [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: Saturday, June 21, 2025, 09:40: pm Husband of Susan, Thank you for that quick update. Hiding underwear and destroying underwear Is typical behavior. We’ve all done it. So glad the children are adjusting. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]