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Date Posted: Thursday, December 11, 2025, 08:41: am
Emily,
Thank you for the updated info. That helps a lot. Oh can I relate as a child. He is me. He is not alone. You are not alone.
His poop is drying and he is constipated and probably in pain going. I know I was. He pees because his colon is pinching his bladder. I peed as well in my pants. When I laid down at night, my bladder was not pinched and I would pee. Even today after a good bowel movement I will pee.
Maude gave you the strategy. Honestly, I would try to see if he would be on board with taken a bulb enema first to help put water in his colon. Warm soapy water. Causes contractions and forces him to push. For him, it’s all about breathing. He takes deep breaths and relaxes to allow what’s inside of him out. If he is not on board, then Maude’s strategy is put in place. It’s called the shock and awe method. Get you some help to place him and hold him. Me, personally, my mom got tired of fighting to get the clothes off of me, so I did my sits after my evening bath and got an enema afterwards as I was already naked. You and someone else grab him quickly, you sit on the lid of the toilet, you and your helper quickly get him over your knee and lock him in place with the other, the helper sits in front of him on the floor holding his arms as he will be crying trying to pull away and reach back. You taken your forearm and press it against his back to help hold him in place and make sure his bottom is up and easily accessible. Lubricant the nozzle, slide it in, start the warm soapy water flowing the enema bag, ask him to breath, take deep breathes, put a quart maybe inside of him at first. Here is the thing, you got to get him cleaned out before you really are able to start helping him. As for as solution, some have used ivory soap, some have used a couple of teaspoons of johnson and johnson baby shampoo, some have used goat milk soap. You really don’t want him to experience cramps as he is taken the enema. Important for him to breath. He will need a plain water rinse enema afterwards. Honestly, he will probably be defeated after his first enema and take the rinse much easier.
I would start with sits first, get him to try to go, relax, breathes, get his body trained again, as he has the urges, he sits, he breaths, he pushes. Be consistent! Once your mind is made up, no turning back, pick a day where you have time to give him an enema and that becomes enema day. On another form many years ago, a mom gave her son enemas every Saturday morning. That was the routine. No questions. If he pooped or peed he got an enema during the week. She used a bulb however. Another mom though, she purchased an inflatable nozzle that would seal her son so he would learn to breathe without any accidents because the inflatable bulbs held the solution in until she released it. Keep us posted. We will be here to give advice and help him overcome this. He probably has classmates fighting the same thing but just don’t know it.
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