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Shelly
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Date Posted: Sunday, August 04, 2024, 08:27: pm
In reply to:
AV
's message, "Re: I was a holder" on Tuesday, July 30, 2024, 04:11: pm
Hey,
I do appreciate that there is this board for us to discuss our childhood experiences with things rectal done to us growing up. I was so afraid growing up that my friends would find out that our stepmom gave us enemas. I think now that it is likely that some of the kids I went to school with had bedwetting or holding or digestive issues that were treated rectally. And I wish I knew then and even more now, who among them were treated that way. My only inkling was when mom had me at the Drs. and as he has his finger up my butt and pushing against my tummy telling mom he sees many kids every month that are full of stool. It just didn't register when I started getting enemas years later that a lot of kids I knew had toileting issues and where getting some sort of intervention. I felt alone on an island with the enema queen. I know in my heart she was in to enemas for our health. I didn't buy it at the time. But she was. And I am now a product of those beliefs. Ask any Dr. and they will tell you that we humans aren't pooping often enough. AV I'm just going to give my 6 year old enemas. The younger will have a couple of years to process what he will face when it is his turn. I'm so nervous about starting the enemas. They fight fight fight about everything. The oldest is sensitive and shy and the younger is aggressive. I suspect the younger will use his brother having to have enemas against him to torture and ridicule him. There isn't much I can do about it. I just don't feel the time is right to start him on enemas too. That would mean his brother got to have two years without weekly enemas and he didn't. I know, silly, but still, not fair.
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