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Date Posted: 09:28:54 12/30/02 Mon
Author: Islandgirl
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Well, I guess it's preferable. . .
In reply to: detoured 's message, "When you first said covered..." on 14:07:01 12/29/02 Sun

to him hanging out with other women!
Has Tea left the house since the baby was born?? Seems like I never see pictures of her or hear any mention of her any more. Now -- as I know from experience -- it's difficult to get out and about much when you have a three-year-old and an infant, but the baby's six-months-old now and I was managing to shop, eat out, etc. when I had kids that small, despite the fact that I didn't have the sort of "help" (maids, nannies, etc.) that I presume Tea has.
Different couples can take widely divergent views as to how much time they should spend together as a family, versus how much time each of them should spend with their friends. My hubby and I and I spent most of our free time together and/or with our kids, but some couples like to be apart more. I've actually had some women tell them it would "drive them crazy" if their husband was around as much as my husband is.
So if Tea *LIKES* being home alone with the kids while DD is off playing basketball, eating lunch, etc. with his male buddies, then it's obviously working for them. I know he worked a lot of long hours when they were first married and he was starring in XF, so maybe that's what they got used to and now she can't adjust to him only working a few days a week (or however long he spends filming his movies) and being around the house the rest of the time. Also, in Hollywood there's probably a lot of gray area between what is considered friendship and business. I'm sure he has to have a certain amount of contact with other celebs in order to be considered for movie roles, etc., so maybe Tea views his lunches as work-related.
Det, did you ever watch "Red Shoe Diaries"? DD plays bball in that.

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Maybe she does go out -- detoured, 13:38:39 12/31/02 Tue
- It's true that. . . -- Islandgirl, 16:06:00 12/31/02 Tue