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Date Posted: 11:09:59 01/10/06 Tue
Author: jim
Subject: parents problem

Well, I have to say after reading your message that the only thing wrong here is a parent that allows her child to go onto a computer and use the internet without first doing there job as parents and setting up the computer at home to be restricted to age appropriate sites for their child.
I am tired of people out there blaming the adult industries and others for problems that start with a parents ignorance to prepare the child for the world that they will have to face. What I am saying is, regardless if you dont want any porn or auction type stuff of this nature, they are going to be out there. Why? Because if they were not needed by people that wanted that kind of stuff, there wouldnt be anything like that out there to begin with!Truth is there is, and they are mostly used and viewed by people who are adults and have their own opinions about that thing.
Just because you find it repulsive and digusting doesnt mean the whole world has to think or feel like you do.
Its like this, anyone in their right mind thinks that a killer or a thief is a bad person.correct?well we have been trying to rid them of our society for centuries with not a whole lot of success.Instead its smarter to educate ourselves and our kids to be a little smarter and cautious of our world around us to help keep them safer. SO, In the case of your son finding ebanned and you not liking that site being there,I think its best resolved by you and others out there like you to be a little more educated about the internet and the dangers on there,and how to prevent that kind of viewing to be seen on your computer BEFORE letting your kid get on it and surf the net! Would you put your kid in the car and let him stand on the seat instead of in his seatbelt? Well, in a around about way this issue isnt any different!
I tell you what, start going through your life blaming yourself for your lack of doing your job as a parent instead of always trying to blame or change the world around you so you can continue to be a lazy mom. No one will have the perfect kid. And no one lives in a perfect world,but what you can do is promise yourself that you will do the best you can as a parent to help them turn out honest and respectable.Thats your job, not everyone elses!

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