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Subject: Re: Unwanted by the father, and am back with ex husband

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Pat

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Date Posted: 06/28/09 6:10pm
In reply to: Julia 's message, "Re: Unwanted by the father, and am back with ex husband" on 06/26/09 7:57am

Oh, one more thing. Your baby is not to blame for the situation you are in. Your baby is depending on you for your protection. Please protect your baby.

Hugs,
Pat

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Antonella (You can make it!)
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Date Posted: 06/29/09 8:00am

I believe that God has plans for everyone and I think that this baby could mean a new "beginning" in your life. I can understand your ex hubby's reaction, it's not easy for a man to face this situation, but the life of this baby is much more important than this. Giving up to him/her doesn't mean that things will get better in your previous family or in your life, there will be a lot of regret and the time will keep a very bad moment "alive" forever- an innocent can't pay with the own life for this. And most of all, you have to behave wisely and explain to your ex hubby that the baby will be there and you 2 can always manage to be in a good relationship, you should be ready to talk to him and explain him that time will help you 2 in any way, and even if he doesn't agree with you, you may accept his own decision and respect him the way he is, keeping the situation "under your control" and deciding your own way. You have to be strong and protect your children FIRST. And God will help you for sure. Everyday is a challenge, if you behave and are strong, people (ex hubby and family) will respect you and understand the choice. Take care and trust yourself ;)