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Subject: Pregnancy Unplanned - Very Confused

Author:
Kay

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Date Posted: 04/ 9/08 5:52pm

Hi,

Just found out I am about 4 weeks pregnant - which came completely unplanned and unexpectantly. Was never really sure I was the family type or wanted that. I have only been with my boyfriend 2 months, and he says he is not ready for fatherhood. He tried to be supportive but when we are not on the same page, my head was getting clouded with guilty feelings of forcing him into fatherhood when he was not ready (if I keep). I still don't know what I want to do (I have known just over a week) and have an abortion appointment Saturday but doubt I will really go- I am not ready for that. I am 31, he is 27. I am able to support this child financially, emotionally, etc but am scared and raelly overwhelmed with the whole idea. I can't even remember the last time I was around a baby - I dont have much experience!
Anyways, going to a decision making counselling session in a couple days and hoping that will help me. I feel very lost and confused and really just want to move in one directino or the next.

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