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im so confused

Author:
lily (confused)

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Date Posted: 07/12/08 4:54am

Hi, Im so glad I found this site but I really am very confused. Im 18 and have been with my bf for 3 years. I think I may be pregnant but its still too early for a test I think. I've had the signs for a couple weeks but just yesterday I had really bad cramps and then bled a little but it wasn't my period. We've already settled on abortion but could I be having a miscarriage? Or is this implantation? Its so hard for me because I have no money of my own and he can barely support us. I have no doctor and I really just need to talk to someone who is more experienced than me.

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[> Subject: Re: im so confused

Author:
Pat
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Date Posted: 07/23/08 12:07am

Hi, Lily,

If you have had pregnancy symptoms for two weeks, no, you aren't experiencing implantation. That happens in just a few days. You could be having a miscarriage. I imagine by now you know for sure.

If the reason you decided on abortion is because of financial problems, let us know. We can help you find the resources you need.

Let us know how things go.

Your baby is depending on you for your protection. Please protect your baby.

Hugs,
Pat