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Subject: Re: Pregnant & Alone Author: Kris [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 10/19/07 9:28am I know exactly what you are going through.I am 20 years old and I am 26 weeks pregnant and no longer with the father. He was a complete jerk and I finally realized that I was better off doing this alone than dealing with the stress and heartache he put me through. It wasn't until the past few weeks that I've actually packed on a few pounds... thats how stressed I was, I lost weight the first few months. It was really hard to walk away, but I knew in my heart I was doing what was best for me and my baby (its a boy). I am now getting used to doing this alone. I fortunately do have support from my family, most of all my mom. I still know what it feels like to be alone. They're there for me, but I always thought that when I had a baby I would have a man I loved to experience all this with. A man to pamper and love me through this, but I don't and I'm okay with it. It took a while to get used to, but I am a strong independent person and thank God for that. I am now more determined than ever before to better myself and my life because now I will have this child that's going to depend on me and only me, I don't imagine his father will be there much, but it's for the best.Basically I just wanted to share my story because I want you to realize that there are so many women out there going through the same thing. Just remember that when you are feeling down and lonely and like no one else in the world understands... there are those of us who do. We're here for you when you need that little bit of inspiration to bring you up. We all need someone sometimes and it doesn't have to be a man... Well I wish you the best of luck! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]