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Subject: Re: Need advice!

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luka

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Date Posted: 06/11/07 9:46pm
In reply to: Jennifer 's message, "Need advice!" on 06/ 8/07 8:55am

What awsome advice Pat! I couldn't have said it better.

Jennifer take it from one who has had too many abortions and who also went on to have 4 precious children. YOur maternal instict is the purest feeling in the world to love and want your baby. If staying with the man who doesn't want your baby or you if you have it is in conflict with that- guess which one is twisted? It's a no brainer. Having a child teaches you so very much. Its an adventure and so worthwhile. Sure you can go and have an abortion but what are you left with? -This aching emptiness, confusion, anger, hurt and a man who wants you on the condition that you kill the child you conceived together. I know which in would be choosing! The baby. Honey if he doesn't want you under these circumstances there's certainly no garuntee that he's going to be there for you in the future wether you have his baby or not. It's not natural for a man to not want to love and protect the mother of his child. Its so scary initially i know. Just hold on to whatever feels good and right in your heart. Any action taken in fear will never lead you to the correct destination. Try to accept your wonderful little baby inside of you. He or she didn't ask to be brought here, but he or she is here. It's not a question of should i have a baby one day. The baby is here now- Please don't forget that you're proposing to end her/his life. No matter what you tell yourself now that reality will hit you like a tonn of bricks post abortion. I have been there and want to spare any woman that agonising regret. x Luka

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Author: Luka [ Edit \| View ]	Date Posted: 06/21/07 5:27pm Jennifer how are you going? Is everything ok?