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HELP:/ 15 & pregnant

Author:
Katie (scared)

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Date Posted: 07/19/07 7:26pm

okay so i just found out im pregnant but if i tell my parents they are going to kick me out and the babys daddy is a loser and he braged to everyone that the condom broke and i hate him for not telling me because i had to find out the hard way and i just recently told my current boyfriend about it and he is verry happy and he said he will be there the whole time and i really do trust && believe him but i am really scared i dont know if im ready to take care of a baby and i dont believe in abortion and i dont want to give the baby up for adoption so what should i do?????????

p.s.thanks for reading this

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[> Subject: Re: HELP:/ 15 & pregnant

Author:
Lori
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Date Posted: 07/19/07 9:53pm

Hi Katie,

Welcome to the board! Do you have transportation so that you can go to a pregnancy center? I would really recommend going to your local crisis pregnancy center. They will be able to talk with you about your circumstances to see what assistance is availabe for you.

You said that you couldn't abort and you couldn't go through with a adoption. I completely understand your feelings and I think that you already know what you want. I would never recommend anyone doing something that they already know they don't want to do. As far as your parents are concerned, your thoughts of how they could or would react could be very different from the way they really react to your news.

You need to find a way to tell your parents. I would recommend bringing a friend with you to tell your parents, or writing them a letter. You might be surprised, your parents may not react the way you think. Are they going to be disappointed? Yes, I'm sure they will but given time they could learn to accept your decision.

We are here for you. If you need help finding a crisis pregnancy center please let us know. Your in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless,
Lori

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Re: HELP:/ 15 & pregnant

Author:
Tracey
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Date Posted: 07/20/07 5:15am

Hi Katie! I echo what Lori said. I know you are scared right now and not sure where to turn! You have come to a safe and supportive place! We can help you in finding a pregnancy center around you that can help you with all sorts of things from prenatal care, to counseling, to baby supplies, etc. If you'd like a list, we will need your state and closest city. We will then send you a list of centers. Please let us know how we can help! Keep us posted!
God bless,
Tracey

[> Subject: Re: HELP:/ 15 & pregnant

Author:
Ashley (Stunned)
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Date Posted: 07/22/07 6:35pm

I Cant believe it. Some how I can understand... Im 20 not and 5 weeks pregnant. Im excited though because of the fact that I know i can do it. Like you I have my Financee here with me helping me (it is his so he better be :) ) but anyways Weve told his parents and theyre excited but I dont know how to tell my parents either I know theyll be furious! But Ive signed up for a few help clinics and you need to definatley find a WIC (Women, Infants, and Children) office around you. I also signed up there and thats the BEST help ive found yet! Good Luck