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Re: I let someone make my decision

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Tracey

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Date Posted: 10/30/07 1:16pm
In reply to: Jennifer 's message, "Re: I let someone make my decision" on 10/29/07 8:37pm

Jennifer~
Oh, I am so glad you are seeking help. It's also great that you are seeking support and advice. I'm so sorry to hear other people were so mean on the other site you had posted on. They have NO right to judge--we have had many women come here post abortion just broken and unsure of where to go. Many are depressed, angry, and broken hearted. I believe it is our duty to help you pick up the broken pieces and seek help to begin the healing process. So many times women choose abortion out of just plain fear or pressure from others. Did you choose to have the abortion? Yes...but you were faced with tremendous pressures and confusion. You had no support to help you do what your heart told you was right. You are in pain because you were being made to choose between your love for your baby and your love for him. What an unfair choice. But it is a choice that thousands of women face every day. The good news is, you are not alone and I truly believe that even something ugly as abortion can have positive outcomes. Right now, it is important that you first seek help and heal. But I truly think you would make a great addition here on the boards as well. You have been in these girl's shoes and can tell them your experiences and from those experiences, I believe they can learn.
But as I said before, I believe it is so important that you begin the healing process. Please don't ever hesitate to post here. You are always welcome. You will have your ups and downs....this is very normal in this situation. But we promise to be here to listen and help in any way we can.
God bless,
Tracey

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