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Subject: Re: im freaking out!!

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Heather

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Date Posted: 11/13/06 10:18pm
In reply to: SabrinaLee 's message, "Re: im freaking out!!" on 11/12/06 6:18am

Hi SabrinaLee,

I'm a little late into the thread, but wanted to wish you congratulations on your baby. I'm glad you have overcome the hurdle and have peace and resolve about your decision to keep the little one. That's often the hardest part! I've yet to meet a woman who decided to keep a baby that was unplanned and regrets doing so. You're in for an adventure with ups and downs, but far more ups, in my opinion.

Congratulations, too, on getting accepted into a college! Hard work went behind that I'm excited for you. I do believe the same God who made you and your little one is also able to carry you through the months and years ahead with the amount of grace you need each day to live in peace.

I hope you'll continue keeping updates posted!

With Kindness,

Heather

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Heather
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Date Posted: 11/13/06 10:25pm

I forgot to add that I agree wholeheartedly with Lisa about not worrying about the father right now. The odds are considerably in favor of him eventually coming around to be supportive of this new little person, but regardless your primary concern should be your well-being and following your instincts of what you know is right.

If it's of any help, one book I found to be a lifesaver during my pregnancies was a well known one called, "What to Expect When You're Expecting." It answers every conceivable question a pregnant woman could have at every step of the way. I'd also recommend taking a prenatal vitamin as right now your little one is growing a mile a minute.

Heather