Author:
Sharon
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Date Posted: 09/ 4/06 2:07pm
Oh, Luka... My heart breaks for you. I wish I could take some of your grief onto myself to help lighten your load even just a little bit.
You know, the post-abortive women I know who have truly found JOY again in their lives ALL - without exception -have one thing in common: They have a personal relationship with Jesus and have accepted His healing grace and unconditional love. They've fully accepted that He has born ALL of the bad or wrong things they EVER did on the cross and that HE has most certainly forgiven them and does not want them to continue to suffer. They know, deep in their hearts, that HE wants for them to be healed. An interesting thing, too, is that they ALL also feel called, as you seem to, to share their personal stories with others in hopes of preventing other women from losing their children to abortion and having to live with the pain and regret. I know of one in particular, Barb Frick (an eloquent speaker and awesome woman who became pregnant the first time she ever had sex, had an abortion, and has never been able to conceive children since) who believes that the child she aborted (she feels she knows it was a little girl and so she has named her "Johanna") is in Heaven. She is certain that someday they will be reunited.
So, I don't know what your feelings are about religion, and I sincerely hope I haven't offended you, but I felt I wanted to share this with you since it springs from my own personal experience of knowing women who are post-abortive.
I will pray that you find healing and that you reach a place where you are able to experience true and lasting joy. I also pray that you one day find a man worthy of your trust and love - a many who can love you and your precious children as a man should. You are such an incredible person. I love reading your posts. You offer such deep insights in your responses to people. Your messages reflect a very sensitive soul. I suspect that sensitivity is partly to "blame" for your feeling the loss of your first little ones so acutely. But, that sensitivity has it's up-side: It means that you should also be able to feel blessings just as acutely ;-)
God bless you, Luka.
Sharon
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